Hey Guys,

I’ve been a PUA for about 2 years now and have a lot of success. My problem is that when getting very good at this, u would have obtained multiple girls of beauty and stature that u will find very appealing and that I for example will see for about 4-8weeks because they are exactly what I want.

Problem is that because they are great High Value girls I want to see them for at least a couple of times(this makes me generate feelings for them), but after they become aware that I'm always surrounded by women they also tend to see other people, but because I'm good at this they are still clingy and want to see me, even after I said it’s over. And trust me it’s very hard to say no to some of these girls if they come to your house in the middle of the night ready to go, but the next day there will be tell tell signs that they mess around with other guys even though they say they just want to be with me.

Put simply, within a relationship or not. Girls play us just as much. They are just more discreet about it, however the more experienced we become as PUAs the better we can read them and see through their bullshit. At the end of the day from my experience 99% of them will mess around and that HURTS!

How do I/we get over this hurt? Can I get over it?

PS yes, I do move on. But it’s a reoccurring scenario, and It really hurts to know 2 much.

Master & experienced PUA's feedback will be much appreciated.

Regards
Skills

Im in the same position.

I think some guys who are not very emotional/sensitive (or are socially conditioned by PUA to believe they arent) wont care or understand this issue. they will reply about removing neediness/butthurt/sarge more girls & view you as AFC.

then some guys like you and I are quite emotional/sensitive, for me I try and clearly tell her to keep details about other guys to herself at the start & this works best for me.

I'm not even close to being a master PUA, nor am I even massively experienced, though I have had good success in the few years I've been doing it.

The most beautiful women I have been with have been the most difficult, they've always been the ones with mind games, that have played me, that have caused drama and bullshit and have usually made it clear that they aren't ready to settle and want to have fun.

Have fun with an HB10

Commit to an HB8



That might be poor advice, but it works for me haha. Not every woman is an emotionally manipulative harpy out to destroy your soul. There are good, faithful women out there.

Honestly bro, just laugh it off. Realize that its probably going to happen to you and just really don't give a shit about it. It's nothing to get worked up about at all. Cause a cool thing about girls is there are lots of them. You just stop fucking her whenever it makes you sick how many guys are probably sticking it in her. Just take the beating and learn to read the signs so you can catch it quicker and not catch something else cause you're raw dogging a girl you think is only fucking you.