So i dated this girl for almost 4 years im 28 and she is 23. The relationship has had its ups and down just like every other relationship but for some reason i feel she is the one. We recently split up on the fact of her parents not likening me and that issue cause more problems from me being jealous of the ppl she started hanging out with. Iv always had a jealousy issue with her because of the stuff i found out about her early in our relationship. We broke up once before because of it and 4 months later she came back after NC. This time its different cause we broke up on good terms and she told me i need to work on my jealousy and that she need to think about her family. We are still friends and talk from time to time about work and stuff. We have hung out once since the break up and the date started off rocky but finished really well and even kissed her. But since the date shes been kind of stand off ish. I have heard ppl tell me that she doesn't want a relationship right now and she fears marriage. She told her cousin that she cant be with me because of her parents and that i wont ever stop being jealous. Now i know i mest up but what do you think i should do if i want her back and to show her iv changed. Should i continue being friends with her or just get her out of my life and maybe she will come around when she ready. Is there any secret PUA moves i can do? Any help would be appreciated.

She's young. I'd get her out of your life for a while, don't be a jerk about it just move on and get her out of your head. During this time you should work on your jealousy issues. After some amount of time she'll contact you again, probably when she is going through something difficult. After she contacts you'll probably get shit tested on the jealousy thing, pass it. Then if you still feel the same way about her you'll probably get another shot at it. Also if there is any reasonable reason that her parents don't like you, you should probably work on that too.

See i wanna get her out of my life but she text me everyday cause shes going through some family problems! I told her she can come stay with me and she said if shit doesn't get better she will. So im thinking im might just wait a little to see how all that comes out! But im not gonna contact her at all. ill let her do that! Which i know she will cause she has just to talk about her family issues.

Honestly? You're up for a rollercoaster, bro... To me it sounds like the both of you have some unresolved issues, and any relationship you have is going to be rocky because of them. I definitely do not recommend shacking up before you've solved at least some of them, and absolutely not in order for her to escape her parents. It's like asking for bloodshed. Instead, offer her a safe haven whenever she needs one, but suggest she stays with friends instead (if she has a place like that).

Letting her live with you is likely to lead into a lot of sex. However, it is also very likely to end up in a complete blow up and a lot of drama. Is that what you want?

Why do you experience jealousy? Maybe you sense that she is in no state of mind to be faithful to anybody, or perhaps you have an experience in your past that you let influence your present. What fear drives you?