Lets face it we have needs and they need to be meet. My goal is to get head twice a day. But unfortunately I have never got one the way I would like even though I would go down on her 5-6 times and make her come.

I'm stuck in these 3 possible scenarios that are unfavorable:

1) Girl is grossed out by the idea of a BJ
This is the most disturbing. These girls deserve to wear a non-removable permanent chastity belt. How do I get them to go for it?

2) Girl gives BJ rarely and that to not properly
These type of girls always want you to be on the top and want you to be the one pleasuring them. They never initiate unless you make them go for it and that too they will do it rare and many times refuse. How do I get them to go for it and initiate? I'm very embarrassed that I have to ask for it. I can ask only once in a while besides why should I have to bargain?

3) Girl does not allow you to ejaculate in her mouth
This is as good as if you give her head and switch to fingers in last minute. So rude. How do you get them to feel comfortable doing it?

In all cases, any woman refusing to do the job is pretty much saying "I don't accept you entirely" or "I don't care about how you feel" and that is definitely what she is thinking. This rapidly creates frustration and I lose self confidence and get very depressed.

Please help me and other men in the same boat (I know there are several) figure this out.

<quote>1) Girl is grossed out by the idea of a BJ
This is the most disturbing. These girls deserve to wear a non-removable permanent chastity belt. How do I get them to go for it?</quote>

Tell her to do it...DONT ASK...if she refuses, dump, her and find one who will.

<quote>2) Girl gives BJ rarely and that to not properly
These type of girls always want you to be on the top and want you to be the one pleasuring them. They never initiate unless you make them go for it and that too they will do it rare and many times refuse. How do I get them to go for it and initiate? I'm very embarrassed that I have to ask for it. I can ask only once in a while besides why should I have to bargain?</quote>

Tell her that she sucks at giving blowjobs (pun intended) and it is a huge turn off- rejection is your most powerful tool on a woman...

<quote>3) Girl does not allow you to ejaculate in her mouth
This is as good as if you give her head and switch to fingers in last minute. So rude. How do you get them to feel comfortable doing it?</quote>

Make her choke on your seed, period!..if she spits it out dump her, telling her that you don't it arousing when a woman refuses to swallow...as it shows that she is into you

</quote>In all cases, any woman refusing to do the job is pretty much saying "I don't accept you entirely" or "I don't care about how you feel" and that is definitely what she is thinking. This rapidly creates frustration and I lose self confidence and get very depressed.</quite>

Lose self-confidence or depressed? LMAO
Dump her, move on, find someone who will. Simple?

I also suggest you set the frame of the relationship from the beginning....EXPECT her to give you blowjobs..if she won't...dump her...The perfect solution GFTOW!!!

Tell her to do it...DONT ASK (asking is very beta and shows a lack of dominance)...if she refuses, dump, her and find one who will.
Tell her that she sucks at giving blowjobs (pun intended) and it is a huge turn off- rejection is your most powerful tool on a woman...
Make her choke on your seed, period!..if she spits it out....fuck her hard in the ass (yes seriously), then dump her, telling her that you don't find it arousing when a woman refuses to swallow and dont like prudes
Lose self-confidence or depressed? LMAO
Dump her, move on, find someone who will. Simple?

I also suggest you set the frame of the relationship from the beginning....EXPECT her to give you blowjobs..if she won't...dump her...The perfect solution GFTOW!!!

some girls just plain and simple don't like dicks/jizz in their mouth, they eat from there, it has nothing to do with you, it's their personal preference

it would be the same thing as some girl who wanted you to tongue her asshole, some guys might find it a bit of a turn on to eat a girl out/lick her stink hole, some don't and think it's gross

the solution = talk to her about it and let her know how much it turns you on and how sexually important it is for you, if you're getting head make sure you are clean down there and keep it trimmed up, you could also invest in some flavored lube to make it taste like candy for her, if she can't fulfill your needs, then find a girl who will instead of trying to change someone