| so last night I went to a graduation party and my girlfriend went to a different one.
we've been doing really good this week and we were texting each other a bit during the parties (they were at the same time). Anyways at 3 am (keep in mind parties are still going on) she texts me saying
"i love you so much , i only want to be with you you're eveyrthing to me"
i respond "me too babe i love you , let me know when you get home"
an hour later (4:40 am - parties are still going on) - she writes to me saying "babe iWork loving" (which obviously makes no fuckin sense so i'm assuming she's drunk and i don't feel too good when she gets drunk and i'm not with her)
i wrote saying "what? i didn't undestand anything"
she responds saying "babe"
i say "hi"
then she responded "whats going on? keep having a good time we'll talk tomorrow."
after this, me "ok babe"
her : "ok"
me : "whatsup with you?"
her: "nothing"
me: "ok"
her: "i'm still here, you?"
me: "me too"
her: "ok , my batteries about to run out"
me: "ok babe, take care"
her : "naaaaaa"
her : "just kidding, yeah we'll talk tomorrow i dont know why i'm mad"
me: "whats up? yeah. talk to me another day"
her: "oh ok , bye. lets see who knows when we're gonna talk"
basically it seems kinda ridiculous how it all started, the thing that got me surprised was that when i told her take care she said naaaaa , thats when i knew something was up because we've been really good. Anyways we talked on the phone afterwards (like 6 am after the parties) - she said that apparently she had called me during the party and i had hung up on her , that's when she started texting me weird . She starts crying to me on the phone asking me why i am texting her so "coldly" ; i had thought SHE was the one acting weird with the "naaaa" shit, that's when i got pissed. she was crying saying that i dont pay attention to her when i go out with my friends , that i take 10-20 minutes to respond to her texts and that she had her phone by her side almost the whole time paying attention incase i called.
anyways while we were on the phone we kinda mutually agreed that the only times we get into "arguments" are when we don't go out with each other and go out with other friends. She gets pissed if I don't answer her soon or if i answer her with a short answer (this only happens when we're out with other friends) , I guess she gets worried (im not sure - maybe it's trust issues but she says she trusts me).
anyways after the phone call we ended it OK, saying "i love you " and we both told each other we really want this relationship to last a long time, honestly she is a great girl and I trust her but this ALWAYS happens when we go out separately, we turn weird on each other .
after our phone conversation i turned me phone off, went to sleep. and I woke up to a text she had sent me when I was asleep saying
"seriously I love you so much and I don't want to lose you for anything in the world. I'm scared to make you mad or that you'll get bored of me. I don't want to be the jealous, posessive girlfriend that is always calling you and sending you texts , ever, it would be the worst. But I dont know why i got like that, i seriously thought you were answering me badly. I do trust you, and I honestly really love you the way you are. I met you like that and I wouldn't change the way you are for anything. I love you the way you are, i'm seriously sorry my love. "
now I know this all started over something silly as fuck but this happens almost EVERYTIME we don't go out with each other. I'm thinking it's trust issues but I don't know. I'm trying to find a solution to this problem because I really like this girl and she really likes me I want to do anything to make this work out and help our relationship.
thanks
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