"You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes."

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My serious advice: start treating her like the slut she is. BDSM, rough anal, facials, booty call sex 'dates', (at least before the wedding when there's no STD risk). Oh, and take pictures of her sucking you, etc. (Don't ever share them around, as that can get you in serious trouble...but once she KNOWS you have pictures, and doesn't know 100% you would never share them, she'll be less likely to cross you.)



Meanwhile, sarge and pursue other girls. Find a replacement ASAP, no question....and maybe keep the old one as a cumbucket.

Funniest part is, it will more likely than not make her love you again/more.

So here I am a couple weeks later , we talked it thorough , made a few agreements and decided to give it another try. It's a long ass story what exactly happene
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Now since then she's seen him (in a group ) and still sees him now n then when she hangs with her group. It kinda pissed me off that she wouldnt even take at least a week or two off from the group so she wouldn't see him, but Fuck it maybe I'm being needy , but its what I.expect from a proper girlfriend

She's been meeting a lot of new ppl, guys and girls and I've been seeing her less . She still loves me , and I still love her, but this is bugging me and I'm tired of this shit. I want to meet new girls but I feel like I get drained from her . I don't want to be pussyless and can't tell if I'm being insecure or if I actually have a legit reason to move on .

What are your opinions on this bullshit situation?

Eventually you'll get so sick of it the putang won't be worth it, and then you'll be in my shoes. Why don't you start going out with some dudes, do some sarging and get fresh numbers and give other girls a chance that aren't going to subtract from you? How long are you going to let this girl be someone you come on to here and gripe about instead of coming on here to discuss your *new* scenarios with women?

You're prolonging your suffering.

Agreed with nebular. Don't ever get back with a girl that has breached your trust in a serious way. Go out and meet people. Copy/paste her formula.

I say you print all that stuff out and then put it somewhere you know she cant find it and then when time comes to confront her see if she comes clean if not then show her the printouts. but either way its going to be healthier for you mentally and emotionally.

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You lose a lot of money chasing women but you won't lose women chasing money.

have you ever done something wrong, then everyone wants to talk about it for an hour or whatever then the matter gets dropped

then your in a moment where you or they are in a stage of remorse, like even tho it got talked out its still there. even tho she didn't physically cheat its still like she got caught with her hand in the purse.



what usually fixes this issue is time apart. which explains her going out with other guys and girls and groups and such. Like getting rid of the dirty air. which is what you should also be doing. Once the dirty air is lifted you spend time together but not the same ole bullshit of sitting at home together or whatever, but the two of you physically going out with other people together and having a good time.

"the dirty air has to get purified if you want to breathe in the relationship again"