Hey boys so I love the site, read up all the time but I finally need a little advice.

Ill keep it short and sweet

-picked up hb8 at the bar, she is friends with some of the girls I know ...F-close
-dated/hung out with her for a month and a half (1-3 days a week) always an F-close
-Always get random nudes from her via text

Anyways you get the picture, we were supposed to hangout last weekend but I couldn't make it because of work ... She was a little upset but no biggie, and asked when she would get to see me again (lives an hour away or so) We made plans that I would come up after work on the Thursday following that weekend. Here's the problem

I fb message her about 10 mins before Im done work asking if she had any cold pints in the fridge, or if she wanted me to grab some ... I get nothing back, no big deal I just head home for a shit,shower,shave then pack an overnight bag , check my phone and still nothing (although she is online) So I throw on the tv and just wait a bit because it seemed odd. she always fires a message back within 5 minutes. I didn't end up hearing from her, and nothing the next day ... around 7 the next night I fired off another message saying "You must be dead, please have your mom notify me of the date/location of the visitation and service " I still get fuck all, anyways I just left it at that.

I am in no way interested in turning this into a full blown relationship for reasons that I hope I don't need to explain. I would like to keep casually dating this girl because she plays a mean skin flute, and is kinky as all get out

So Gents, whats my next move or is she a goner?
Also is this payback for the weekend I couldn't make it up to see her?

It could be a shit test...?? just keep gaming and move on..with me personally .. i always treat EVERY girl as if she can be a goner in ANY sec soo its never hard feelings... However you might be getting the cold shoulder because of the "no show" soo MAYBE... but you should freeze her out .. see what happens

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'm thinking its the shit test/cold shoulder combo. I froze her out last Friday, and have been gaming a few other girls... Ill ride it out and report back


Whats everyones opinion on removing her from facebook in a few days? Im leaning towards no because that will just make her feel like she "won" that much more

I wouldn't. It's best to be as non-reactive as possible in these situations. I'd just wait a week or two and drop her a text inviting her to some kind of fun event. Act like nothing is weird about the situation.

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Good call on the no reaction, I noticed tonight after work she seems to be giving me several fb post shit tests ... she very very rarely posts anything and the last couple days she has been posting a lot of stuff about what she is doing .. ie: at a fancy pool (swimming) bar club , casino , movies, fancy restaurant for drinks .. etc although my phone tells me she is online (computer) so I'm thinking its a big shit test

Thanks for the advice men, id say this one was a game/set/match for me and keep her on the back burner

cheers

Its possible she wants more than fwb and realized you aren't willing to give her what she wants and simply is making a concerted effort on moving on albeit in a very immature way OR simply trying to freeze you out to test your commitment/get you to bend to her whim.