Sup dudes, 1st post although I read through the advice in here occassionally.

I've been dating this chick for a month, she's 24, I'm 37. This is my 1st relationship in years, I've been mainly getting my game up for about 2 years, meeting girls and fucking but this is the 1st chick I've actually given a damn about. I'll make the back story as short as I can. I live in the city and use the bus to get to work, saw her for little less than a year on it. Finally talked to her, we hit it off, got her number, blah blah blah. She told me she'd always wanted me to talk to her. She recently broke up with her boyfriend like a month before we hooked up but still lived with him and a roommate. Apparently the boyfriend was super beta, he wasn't hitting it, she hooked up with the roommate. She got a new apartment like a week ago, the ex moved back to a new state but she still talks to the roommate she was hooking up with, apparently he wants her and is trying to turn her against me. She says he's a douche and she was desperate at the time. She moved here a little more than a year ago and doesn't have many friends so she still talks to this douche because they've known each other a long time, I get it but it still bugs me. He says he loves her and sends her dirty texts and shit that she tells me about, she's not hiding it but isn't stopping it. How should I handle that? Thats the 1st thing, 2nd thing is I'm falling for this broad like hella quick. She told me she loved me and I told her the next day I loved her. Now I feel like I said it too soon to appease her but I actually feel that way and wanted to tell her. Now I feel like she's pulling back after I told her I loved her. Think I might have invested too quickly in this. If I fuck this up, oh well, I'll move on but this chick is a badass, so I'd like to keep her around. Should I pull back as well? I think I might be rushing into this shit and need a little time, I work and go to school so I don't see her all the time. The sex is great, I put it to her and she loves it, I make her cum like fucking crazy. She says she likes the fact that "I get it". Still feel like I might be really turning on the beta here. Like I said, 1st relationship in a while. Any advice would be cool. Thanks.

Why would she be telling this ex about you? My only guess would be to make him jealous, sounds like she may still want this douche as she calls him.

You should have set some boundaries before telling her you loved her.

Yeah, I'm starting to get that exact feeling.

You're 37...she's 24. She lived with roommate and ex, and fucked the roommate. When you return feelings she pulls back. This is a game for her and she's Not gf material. Prepare to get burned if you continue.