Hey guys! New to the forums here. I never thought I'd ever think about getting back into the game but so much can affect you when you're the type of guy that wants that "dedicated life-long relationship". Anyways, being in one of those is starting to make me become in an emotional wreck due to being insecure and somewhat "tied on a leash".

Anyways I'll tell you a bit about myself and let you know where I'm at right now,

I started the game two years ago in High School(just graduated) because I was tired of being an AFC. After that whole process the AFC side of me kicked in when I met this girl that would be that girl on the "pedestal". However I played it cool and long story short we've been dating happily for a year and a half now, not many problems except a few "insecurities" where she's like extremely possessive of me, doesn't like it when she sees a girl talking to me, asks alot of questions about it, etc... but instead of bitching about it she uses that "sad little girl" technique so I really can't blow that off like shes a bitch.

Well now she's off in another country, Malaysia, to visit her sister and because shes always wanted to visit there. Her being really far gives me some insecurity issues because I care so much for her. I've been messaging her every night to make sure that she is safe and when she doesn't it worries me alot. Just now she told me about why she didn't message me last night and it was because "it was a lonnng day". She told me that she learned how to chug a beer(we have the we're never going to drink and we're gonna be goodie good) from her sister's friend(guys and girls), and then they gave her advice about drinking. And next she told me about how much fun it was, they went to 2 bars and she danced there.

Now you know what Alcohol does to people, especially girls, and this just doesn't make me feel good at all about it. What am I suppose to think? Would/Is she dancing with another guy because I'm not there. Is she doing things I wouldn't want her to do? Is she hiding anything? There's just so many thoughts.

Being with her I feel constrained, my social life diminish because I feel as if I cannot talk to any other women or go up and meet other women. Otherwise she would feel sad about it. The same goes for me with her so I understand. I just don't know what to do, what to think, I'm just confused right now and I feel as if soon I will become in an emotional wreck if I don't know everything that she is doing. I feel as if the only way to deal with this is to get back into the game. Otherwise doing nothing, I would be thinking about her constantly 24/7, is she safe? is she talking to any guys in Malaysia?

I just wanted an input from you all on this.

I think you need to step back and breath. She is in a foreign country far away from you, of course when you hear she is drinking it will make you think she is cheating but thats not always the case. This experience will either make you guys stronger or show cracks that were already there. When you see her again in person and things go back to "normal" you will know if something is wrong, without even asking. Don't over text her, profess you undying love or anything else. Just do some things to pass the time and take you mind off of her. Also your super young....you will have many other women!