Dude.... I mean... just DUDE....

I don't even know where to start. Neither of you is ready for a relationship. Your game is so weak it is painful to read what you have done, and this girl has absolutely no idea what she wants. Just zero... Aaaaaand it's your fault.


Man... If my girl started humping other guys I would dump her sorry ass right at the spot. I wouldn't care about why she did it or whatever else. It's just fucked up. And then it would be the last thing I could think about to go back with an apology. You are one of the neediest guys I have ever seen on these forums. I'm surprised you even managed to pull this girl. I'd call it pretty good luck, but you fucked up big time like a 1000 times in a row. And this girl was not worth it in the first place. You have so much to learn, and everyone here kept saying you should dump this bitch and I just can't think about a single reason why you kept doing this to yourself over and over again. I've lost hope for you. I'm not going to post here anymore. You fail to listen to anything. You learn nothing. You are miserable and you deserve it unless you change your attitude.

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Hey,

Belgium here, so close . She's just not good man, leave her. Seriously, i've seen girls like this.

She flirts with other guys, but then gets mad about your ex calling you? What is this for fucking bullshit??

You let her sweet words get you, you are even possible to have sex with her!? (Rewarding her for what!?)

Let me state it like it is. This girl is VERY insecure. She needs attention from boys to make her feel better about herself. She messes with your head, it's making you feel sick about yourself.

What would be the best option for you as a person? Would you benefit from removing her from your life? I think the change would be big. There are many, many good girls out there, try one of these. You'll be slamming yourself in your head thinking back on this situation

You've asked us whether you should give her a second chance. Everybody here said don't. You deserve every bit of suffering that is about to come.

Yes you're right. I was wrong for giving her a second chance and now have to live with the consequences..

Dude it's ok, everyone makes mistakes. You'll learn from this. Keep it up

I'm very disappointed, but not surprised. However the fact that you were letting this whore grind with other guys while staying in a relationship with her shows you to be a weak and not even beta, but omega, and has nothing to do with game. People like you enable and validate the behavior of controlling entitled sluts like your ex, by letting them get away with such behavior. I hate to say this, but I don't feel sorry for you.
I hope you'll learn from this and change.
Best of luck.

When she was grinding with other guys we weren't in a relationship

It doesn't matter how you call it, rhaddadi. She told you she wanted to make things work and then promptly went on humping other guys. Officially in a relationship or not, I can come up with only a few bigger red flags than this, that are remotely reasonable. You deserve a Darwin award if you give her another chance regardless of the circumstances.

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Should have deleted her number and after ignoring her for a day or two replied "who's this?".

No, Don Draper he shouldn't have. He did the right thing when he dumped her, the only mistake was that that should have been the end of the story. Your reply might actually gotten her interested again, but since OP is as beta as he is, and this girl is as a bitch as she is, it would have just made this misery longer.

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