so today marks the second month me and my girlfriend have been together -

so we usually are on good terms with each other , but idk why I feel like under all this stuff we tell each other there are some other feelings.. idk why I feel uneasy about this . we tell each other cute stuff but a lot of times we are in person we don't demonstrate to each other physically what we tell each other.

this is an example of our conversation over text we had last night

her "I want to sleep with you and hug you all night "

me " when finals are done on monday babe "

her " Yes!!! "

her: "its midnight it's our two month!!!!!! <3<3<3 "

me: "two of many babe "

her: "yess of many many, i'm never gonna let you go"

her: "you make me too happy i really like you a lot"

me: "you too hun, you know i'm going to be there for you for whatever reason, we're a team . te quiero mucho" (were mexican and this kinda translates to i love you)

her : <3 <3 me too , you have no idea how much "

me : " I cant wait for tests to end so I can spend more time with you!"

her: "i'm going to sleep and going to wake up early to study my love, i love you a lot alot alot alot alot alot"

her: "we'll talk tomorrow "

her: "there's not one minute where I don't think about you "

me: "im going to kidnap you and take you to Cali with me! I sware (where i'm originally from)

me: i hope your parents dont get angry

me: hope you get good rest babe , good luck on your test

her: "hahaha well I hope not! because i'd go all the way to China just to be with you"


etc.. etc.. etc.. you get the point it seems like we're "really in love" type of thing but I feel like i'm saying all this stuff becuase I have to , I mean I really care for this girl because she's honestly a really good person - she brings me to eat to my apartment sometimes without me telling her, she does a lot of favors for me without me asking her, is sometimes ridiculously cute the way she acts , plus in the bedroom she aint bad and she's down .
I don't know why though I feel like under everything she says she has mixed feelings though, i'm not sure if she trusts me 100% , she says she does but i think she just doesn't want to tell me her problems, she doesnt want to seem weak .
she's an hb 8.5 and there are a lot of guys who are after her, even professors at our university - this is another thing that makes me uneasy i guess, maybe it's because I've never liked a chick this much that i'm worried to lose her ..
the thing that makes me wonder all this stuff is because a lot of times i'm with her she just acts totally different than from how she was writing to me the night before , I mean we hold hands/ kiss/ do all that but sometimes she acts a little more closed-minded than others, sometimes she's quiet/doesnt say much - acts a little weird .. sometimes this goes on for a few days and then things are back to normal, then we have a good run, goes a little weird again, goes back to normal etc. etc. etc.. this is why i think there may be trust issues under it all , or some other issues I really don't know . Like today (keep in mind she just told me all that stuff last night) , we went to go eat breakfast with ALMOST NO WORDS SAID to each other, i THINK i'm acting like my normal self and i THINK she's the one acting a little cold, but in reality I DONT KNOW. it may be me who's acting like a douche , i've been told I have a tough-personality so i really don't know.. all i know is that we've never been to the point where we hardly speak at the table .
Almost every weekend she's with me , I'm friends with her close group of friends so even when she's not with me I know who she's with for the most part . We've never been mad at each other to the point where we stop talking, nothing ahs ever been that major.

About 3 weeks ago though she went up to me almost crying one day asking me "did i make you mad or something because you're acting very cold with me" when I had absolute no idea that I was acting different with her - i told her there's absolutely nothing wrong and she said sorry and that she loves me etc. etc. , that was it and everything was fine after that .

This may seem very stupid to a lot of you but i'm seriously curious if anyone has experienced anything like this - one thing I noticed is that we don't really tell each other many secrets or are very open emotion-wise . she doesnt tell me much and I dont tell her much . I'm not sure if this is the issue .
I'm concerned because this girl is very good to me for the most part and I want to make this last as long as possible .
thank you

My girlfriend seems a lot like your girlfriend it seems especially with trust issues (drives me fuckin nuts). Being not open emotional wise is your main problem. If your feeling one way with her you need to be direct and let her know why and she needs to do the same. Its obvious that she's really into you so your trust needs to be with her unless you see some red flags, take honor that guys hit on your girl though shows how high value she has.

I can see both sides of this.

1) Needy girl asking too much of you, always seeking your attention.

2) Aloof guy, not giving the woman the respect and time she deserves now that he's 'got' her.

Here is a mishmash of relationship advice:

Let some mystery into the relationship (no, I don't mean acting cold at dinner- you guys should be playful, talking and otherwise enjoying each others' company - if not then something is clearly wrong). When people get into a relationship, a lot of them want to go 100% in - but this sort of kills the excitement and playfulness of the initial phase. I really like the 90-10 rule - you are 90% hers, and she is 90% yours, but the other 10% you guys spend push/pulling and chasing each other. Surprise her once in a while by making her dinner/taking her out unplanned/getting her a small but thoughtful gift - women LOVE that kind of thing. Also - it's nice to say "I love you" once in a while, but I really don't think it's necessary to do this every day (it can get nauseating, and you'll both eventually get very tired of it..then stop doing it at all). Let her chase you a little bit (and subconciously encourage her to do the same) - keep the excitement alive. Finally, COMMUNICATE, and assure her that you care for her in ways besides saying "I love you babe" or "Wanna be with you forever." Rule of thumb - show, don't tell.

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Preston's Game Log - Please critique

preston I'm pretty sure I do do the 90% /10 thing , when i'm with her i'm always showing my affection for her and i compliment her a lot/ but then I randomly start teasing her etc.. . I also randomly do things for her unexpectedly, like the other day she was working and I took her boba , she was telling me afterwards how everyone at her work as jealous even her boss etc.. I love surprising her with little things .

I have to say guys unfortunately this happened AGAIN , it's honestly starting to piss me off to the point that breaking up with her has even crossed my mind (I obviously DONT want to do it but if it continues I will) - what do you guys think I should do? this happened yesterday/ today

Yesterday we hit it off perfectly, she came over to my apartment, everything was fine yesterday (besides the fact i've noticed she's been a lot quieter than usual - i ask her what's wrong and she says nothing is wrong and tries changing the topic) , again last night she tells me (her exact words over text -she wrote this while i was asleep) "gorgeous , I cant stop thinking about you. I'm watching TV and thinking about you and your beautiful eyes and your smile drives me crazy. I seriously like you so much and don't want to be with anyone else! I'm never gonna let you go ever! I love you a lot" . Obviously after I read this stuff she sends me i'm not a douche and just say "oh thats nice hun me too" , i write some cute stuff back but id rather not put that on here to not get off topic .. haha

now TODAY we're talking just fine over text , I ask her if she's at school (so we can meet up) and she says she went to go have breakfast across the street, so I told her to enjoy her food etc and that i'm about to leave school. Anyways like 20 minutes later I'm about to leave and she sees me as i'm at the exit, says hi, , hugs me, and goes off to do whatever she had to do. she didn't say ANYTHING else, just hi and she left - no how are you, didn't stay for a second just hi and bye . now I don't know if it's me acting like a girl deep inside or if she's the one acting weird - i obviously did not go chasing after her to see what she was up to , I just said hi and watched her walk away . Perhaps she was busy and had to do something but still , she was pretty cold.

what do you guys think is going on, i'm not sure if i'm making a big deal out of this or if something is really happening but ME personally I feel she's thinking something in her head - but she never wants to say what's on her mind