So I just broke up with a girl 1 week ago. We really got lost at the beginning. I cheated on her and was so stressed I treated her pretty bad, started having back problems, plus we were in the same "job" for that time. So in the end she started to become pretty distant I got needy and went even worst, was having anxiety crisis, pretty much lost all my confidence and turned into a shaking, angry and irritable person.We broke up last week on both accord.

My doubts are:

1. Is it possible to fix it?
2. Or should I go out and find another girl?

Right now I'm finally getting out of this, and slowly regaining my confidence and back into a stronger frame.

Good you wrote about it so soon. Get over it by finding your old, strong self and look for other women. If she wants to be with you she knows where to find you, and if it happens and you also want her back make sure she will find the strong, concentrated guy she was attracted to in the first place. I am just beginning to reestablish myself after a bad separation few months ago. Just had my first success and if all goes well more is on the way. It's tremendous help to create a recent memory of your bed filled up with another woman. It pushes the previous one further away in the past in a faster manner.

Yeah. That's pretty much what I thought. I knew the only way to possibly getting everything back on track was ejecting myself and start rebuilding. Everyday gets easier and everything is slowly falling back into place, basically with some NLP, work out, and doing some game (although I'm still pretty week).

Thanks for the advice and hopefully everything will be righted.
Greetings.