So here's the thing. I study abroad and I came back to my homecountry for a few days last week. I had sex with a girl that I really like and now we're chatting on facebook. She told me that she received an anonymous text message on her cell phone, which was something like "There's gonna be a romantic surprise tonight." At first I saw this as a shit test and I thought that she's just making that up to tease me. However, when I asked her some specific questions about it, her responses were pretty specific as well. She told me she was going out to enjoy the surprise and she was gone for approx 30 minutes. I asked her wether the "romantic surprise" was over and she told me that it has just begun. Then I asked her how's it going so far. She responded "Intriguing. I'm going out again, I'll text you later to tell you how it went. :**" How should I approach her after that? I mean, I want to find out wether she's just teasing me, or she's telling the truth, or both.

If it's a shit test, then the proper way to deal with it is to ignore it. If it's not.. well, then you're still probably better off not asking for the details. Just tell her to go out and have fun. If you pry too much, then you'll just come off as acting insecure (or jealous).

-Wolf

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The best way to extinguish a shit test is with a pee test. Basically you pee all over the person and watch them as a look of bewilderment and disgust overcome them, at which point they've completely forgot about the shit tests they hurled your way.

God speed.

GTFTOW.
90% it was a shit test,you both arent in a relationship so you shouldn't care !