Been with a girl for 13 months. When we first met ran some PUA stuff on her and while we were hooking up she wasn't that into me.

She went on a break and when she came back I decided that the PUA stuff wasn't working and just be myself. Things changed and she was totally into me.

Even looking at her emails one day she messaged a friend saying at first I was a jerk but then became the man she was looking for buying flowers and everything.

*Fast Forward 13 months*

I began to get needy and she begans to push away. Sex dies down. We get into a huge fight about her Texting her ex.I end up walking.

I end up going back and she gets angry and says she wants to take a break and doesn't think we should talk for a bit. Thing is during this time she'll be heading back to Texas where her ex is who she is still friends with...

If I go no contact by letting her leave without talking or break things off completely. It almost gives her the green light to bang other guys. How can I clarify this "break"?

She already told you she needs a break, stop being so insecure. That's probably how you lost her in the first place.. If she broke up with you, she can f#ck whom ever she wants to.

The ONLY chance you have: Disappear from her life and move on with yours. Don't contact her and don't reply in any way. Work on your inner game, become the man you want to be.

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Read pumpington's reply, that's all you need to know.

THIS though I'd probably reply after a couple of weeks and lay down the law, if she doesn't accept it or like it NEXT

Good point. IF she wants you back, let her know what you expect in a girlfriend