Give you guys a basic jest, been dating this HB9 about 3 weeks, and all we've done is have hardcore make out sessions and when I try to escalate and try to take her pants off, she let me unbutton them then said she felt weird and buttoned them back up. I don't usually have this problem. In fact 3 weeks for nothing but making out is extremely weird for me.

Anyways, she says she doesn't want to do anything to mess up the relationship and she thinks I won't stick around, so I used the mystery's method to try and get rid of the LMR still no luck. And just today she told me she was scared because she might disappoint me with her body and she's uncomfortable with it.
(I know she'll be hot naked, I think it's just an excuse, she goes tanning in a bikini every other day.)
Now I think I messed up by trying to stick the point in her head that I would stick around, but I get tons of IOI's from her consistently, like if I don't text her back within like 30 mins I'll get another text from her. Blah blah blah, anyways after I got off the phone with her today after she told me she was scared she sent me this.

"I love you. More than I can explain. You won't even be able to understand how much I love you, because honestly, I don't know how much I love you. I just know that its a lot, and even I can't explain it. You make all my days better, you listen to me when I need someone to talk to, even if its just about something that's upset me.
You're more amazing than you think or will ever know. And I'm willing to help you understand how fantastic you are, for a really long time.
I love you, Even if I call you names, and argue with you about who loves who most, or who is more amazing. I truly love you, and I've never felt like this for someone. And, it scares me. But, its a good kind of scared; almost like a scary ride at an amusement park, where you get on thinking you're gonna die, but get off wanting to get right back on. That kind of scared.
I love you, more than words can explain. And I really hope you understand, that there not one single person who can love you more than I can."

There was more, but you get the point. I know this chick digs me, and we talked about fucking even before the relationship happened. And I thought my escalation was good, when we were alone one just this last time she told me should fuck me right then and there but she wanted to still take things slow.

And neither of us are virgins.

I can understand if she's never done it before, but if she has...STD maybe? Talk to her more about it.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

She's afraid of losing power. Women delay sex because they are scared the man will have complete power, and for certain women, this is the case. Don't tell her things will be okay. SHOW HER. Believe it or not, Im willing to bet she's very sexual. Go slow, make advances when it feels right. If she rejects, pull away. No sweat. Try again when it feels right. She's not going to make a big deal of it unless you're overly aggressive. Sounds like she wants to, but doesn't want to feel like a slut.

You aren't making her horny. Appreciate her whole body (especially if she doesn't fully appreciate it herself)

There is more to a woman than 2 breasts and a vagina. Stop being so concerned about your own feelings and take her feelings into consideration. Is she enjoying it? Does she feel good? Focus more on arousal than escalating. Sometimes NOT doing something and teasing her a bit is the best way to really get her going.

A famous line I like to use is "we should stop" once I start to feel resistance and KEEP GOING. It drives girls FUCKING INSANE! They are asking themselves "WHY IS HE SAYING WE SHOULD STOP?!" Its putting you in control instead of her.

Judge by her actions and see through her BS. This shouldn't happen if she loves you that much. I see two steps here:

Step 1. Escalate > back down when her bitch shield pops up> repeat process by kicking it up a notch every time. Two steps forward, one step backward. And never show frustration, joke a bit about her being a prude.

Step 2. Withdraw attention if step 1 isn't taking you anywhere. A soft next might do wonders.

Sounds like my ex-she was so sexaul and showed and told me she loved me but delayd sex til i hard nextd her ..i later found out she was into older men and was HIV Postive .

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