Girlfriend:

Girl is a HB. She is funny, cultured, and incredibly mature for her age(we're 24). She does a customer service job and part time do a marketing job. She is a social butterfly and has got many friends. She is from Asian Country and studing abroad. Uptill now what i have analysed is that she isnt a mind gamer.
Situation:

Her and I dated for about 3 months. I went out with her several times. At first i wasnt so much attracted with her i hust wanted a good time and a long term relationship as she was from different country as i am also an Asian as well. She had a different religion.I had a wonderfull sexual chemistry with her as well. At first she just forced me to marry her after a year and she will leave her family and everything for me because her family wont accept me as her husband. she was so cooperative with me she never demanded anything in return from me except love and pure attention but that time i use to ignore her and used to tell her the consequences about marriage with her but she was sticked to the point that she wants me as a husband in any case. The past she had was she used to have a boyfriend who dumped her because he got in relation with someone else and cheated her.

Problem:

Everything was going fine i also started to think of her as a wife and got serious about getting married with her because of her sincere efforts love and care for me. Plus her innocence and cuteness. But one day she met me and started weaping and she let me know that she cant marry me because of the family issues and she cant take a bold step of leaving her family. She said by doing this her parents would get a lot of pain and some serious impacts would come into effect and they would earn a bad family repute. She said she wants to sacrifice her love for them. She asked me to stay with her as her love forever and she is sorry to hurt me as i complained that u made my mind and now i saw so many dreams of being with u as a husband. And in the begning when i asked u about these issues u told me you could ignore the consequences and now you are talking anout the bitter realities. She says she would marry someone but her love for me would be always there she wont be leabing me and stay with me. GUYS COULD YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHAT HAS HAPPENED I REALLY FELL FOR HER AND CANT LIVE WITH HER I TOLD HER BUT SHE IS STICK TO HER DECESION DONT KNOW HOW SHE CHANGED HER MIND
MIGHT BE SOMEONE BRAINWASHED HER
MIGHT BE SHE IS AFRAID
MIGHT BE SHE IS INSECURE
MIGHT BE SHE IS OPTING THE WAY TO HAVE EVERYTHING ME AND HER PARENTS HAPPINESS

My Efforts::

i am totally secrewed as i have lot of ambiguties but one thing her attitute towards me has changed a very little as she txts me meets me calls me as she used to be in earlier days. I got this girl and won her heart by applying the pua tips and now i want to stay alpha but cant do that anymore as i am dying inside please throw some light serious matter

Lol. 3 months and you thought she would really marry you? Whatever pua book you bought burn it and ask the author for your money. Get out of fantasy world and meet women

it means i am cheated but then why did she do that?
i was with her wasnt leaving her ?
so why she convinced me for marriage?

Marriage after 3 months is total madness. She doesn't know what she wants, and clearly isn't as mature as you think she is. I don't even tell the girl I love her after 3 months... you really should slow down dude.

well for the time being i am gettting desperate and she has picked it and i dont know she is not giving me proper time and i can see lack of interest but when i stop texting she starts to panic and becomes normal again ? is she seeking attention by doing that. due to that change i have become lot of possesive like i keep on thinking that has she got someone else in her ilife like last night she stayed at her friend home and wven told me the address. i didnt ask her who the friend was as i dont want to show the possesiveness .. so inside i am dying when ever she cuts my call i think negative like is she gining time o another guy... but i sometimes think i am counting on every minute and thats why my possesiveness is leading me to negative thoughts . i dont want to spoil my relation so plz guide me abt how to act on her? should i be aloof and ignore? how can i be more attractive to her like alpha male.

I hate to say this, but there is nothing you can do in your mind to fix this. The only way you can change to be less possessive and more alpha, is if you start gaming other girls. Moral? no. Does it work and change your attitude completely? yes. Does it make you more desirable? yes.

Marriage after 3 months is a big question mark. Both of you should decide, but never think of the consequences that might come if you get married after a short period of time as a GF and BF. 3 months is not enough of getting to know each other well. You have to think 100 times, before you decide, because marriage is not a game.

Bro, I can speak on this topic fairly well since I am divorced. I was dating my ex wife for 3 years before we got married, and our marriage lasted 7 years and now I'm a single father. While we were dating I looked past some serious flaws just like you are willing to do. I really thought I loved that cunt, but I realize now I just kinda settled for someone, she was def the wrong one. I have been divorced for about 6 months now, I was fucking happy when she moved out. If you settle for someone you'll find yourself in the same boat! Think about this statement you made " she talked you into marriage'" that's some scary stuff. What you should do in my opinion, unzipped your pants, pull them down, check to see if your testicles are still there. If they are there then get the hell out, I know It sucks! Remember this familiarity is a devastatingly powerful drug, you will stay because it's easier than gettingnout, you will look past major flaws because she is familiar. Btw go out and find and bang a bunch of chicks it will cure whatever ails ya, 6 weekends in a row 6 different chicks!

Btw, if she's a study abroad student and she wants to get married ASAP, you should be able to connect the dots. She wants that citizenship. She'll dump your butt the moment that passport gets minted. Beware.