Why the whole discussion about ex's? You found a text where your gf was flirting with her ex and hiding it from you.

How is her ex a loser for being persistent? She's texting him about their past so no offense but you're gf sounds like a bigger loser for even thinking about that stuff and taking the time to text him that.

The ex is hanging around not to manipulate or anything. Your gf is telling him she's thinking about the good ole days. If my ex were texting me that, yeah I'd text her because I know I could easily hit it just from that message.

Dr. Jones...I mean no disrespect here but are you so in love with this girl that you'll reframe HER texting him and HIDING it from you as HE'S a persistent loser trying to manipulate her? That's like if your girl blew a guy in a bathroom and then told you he has a small dick and you go on thinking, "oh he'll never get with her....my dick is waaay bigger." You're missing the fact SHE's flirting with HIM and HIDING it from you.

If she can text him about the past, and hide it from you, how do you know she isn't meeting him? If it's because you're better than him she wouldnt be thinking of THEIR relationship while being in the same room as you.