Hey Guys,

I'm new to this forum.. hoping to get some constructive advice

I've been seeing a girl for about 3 months now.. things had been progressing really well. The sex has been regular and great, and we enjoy each other company.

I had been seeing her at least twice a week, up until about a week ago. After a gap of about a week and a half i saw her last night, and she seemed a little distant.

After talking with her for a while, I basically drew the following out of her:

She really likes me, enjoys hanging out with me and thinks im really nice (ouch). But she feels she should be feeling more strongly towards me at this point.. as though her feelings have plateaued.

To be fair, I've been really honest with this girl about how I feel, and she has too.. feel as though i might have come on a bit to heavy, or given away to much early on. Really not sure what approach I should take from here - dont wana lose her

I guess I should mention that we havnt really been going out on dates.. the first couple of times I saw her we went out, but since then its pretty much been a staple of my place or hers. thinking maybe I need to spice it up a bit?

Any feedback would be much appreciated.

I suggest start by being less available and not giving everything you have to her if she isn't on the same page, be open to other women. Don't text her as much, a little distance perhaps.

At 3 months you're not gaming her anymore, it's a relationship. Quit the games. Don't go distant unless you've decided that it's over. Let the relationship do what it will. My advise is to shake up your own life. Decide to do something fun, and tell her you'd like her to come. The key here is to set your mind to go do whatever it is regardless of if she goes, and have fun.

If all you've been doing is meeting at her place or yours and fucking, it's very likely she's looking at it saying, if that's all there is, I think I pass.