I was dating this girl for 3-4 weeks and I played everything perfectly in my opinion. I never showered her with attention unless she deserved it and we didn't see each other 24/7. During that time I couldn't sleep with her cause she had this bad tounsil infection which was true but I would build her up with sex talk and she would say shes gonna rock my world and what not but one day we were randomly hanging out she says she is so stressed out and she doesn't know about us. I told her I can easily go have another girl if I wanted to but I chose you but if that's what you want fine. She asked if we can be friends but I just said that a friend wouldn't wanna do the things I want to do to you. She laughed
I went completely no contact, just texted her hoping that her surgery went well but never responded to what she texted. She texted me happy birthday at midnight of the day before my birthday. I responded thanks next day when I felt like it.
So about two weeks go by and she try's to text me. I chatted for a bit. Then she texts me the next day saying she saw me on campus and wanted to talk and that I sould know that she misses "her friend" I just corrected something she spelled something wrong but didnt really addressed what she said. After a little bit of back and forth texting where I kept dropping sexual innuendos but I stop. Two days later she wants me to come over since her parents weren't home but I kept it cool and made sure she wouldn't flake but she ended up flaking saying her parents are on their way home. Next day she sends me a pic saying I really do miss you with hearts I respond 3 hours later saying that was very cheesy and if she drew that on her ipad but no response since it was 1 am. Next night she texts me to call her so I do and she wants to know how I'm doing and I told her things where great and I have some great opportunities which I did,
she was saying what happened to me and that I'm diffrent and that she wants to fark. I told her tomorrow but she said she can't and I basically said she plays to many games. We chit chat for a little longer and I end the call but she texts me 20 min later saying she is not playing any games and she promises that shes gonna rock my world just not tomorrow. I never respond. I see her on campus hanging out with my friends since we're in the same social circle but I just say high and don't talk to her and when she leaves I totally ignored her.
We end up in my car later that day, she even gave me condoms but she had to get to a meeting by 5 so I didn't do anything that day and I gave her a ride and when I dropped her off she asked if I wanted a kiss so we made out but I pulled out and said you need to leave before I do something I shouldn't
she laughed. She texts me after I leave that shes horny and that I should have done something, but before that she kept saying how important this meeting was....
I text her the next day to see if we can meet but she already left campus so we texted a little and i got really sexual but just when she got into it I stopped and changed the subject. This is where things got weird
Her: so I told my parents you're trying to smash
Me: that's great
Her: stop being a jerk
Me: I know you didn't
Her: still, stop being mean or I won't be your friend
Me 2 hours later: but I'm the bestest friend ever
No response. I see her with our mutual friends the next day and when I had a chance to talk to her alone I told heR lets go somewhere were we can be alone(fark lol) but she smiled and shook her head, I asked her why and she says because she wore really tight jeans and they were hard put on...... Wtf!!!
Haven't spoke since then. Been going out and enjoying myself but I'm still stuck on this, she was hot and suddenly cold. She kept being sexual too!
Please help, I'm so confused about this and I want an opinion.
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