Hello everyone. I `ve been in a relationship for about 7 months now. During the first 2 months, the sex was great, about 2-3 times a day. After that, however, our sexlife has started going downhill. And the truth of the matter is, that I`ve made it worse by whining about it a lot, and she would reply: "Do you think complaining about it will make me hornier"? I realized 2 months ago that complaining wont solve the problem and I havent brought it up ever since, but our sexlife still sucks as much as it used to be. We barely have sex once/week, and I feel so unfulfilled.

My gf says she loves me, and wants to spend the rest of her life with me. We broke up 2 times for less than a day during our relationship. I was the one breaking up in both times, and she was the one trying to get back with me again, so I am not being beta in the relationship.

I already have my own life, I have my own friends, my own time to hang out with them, I have my hobbies, my plans, so I am not doing the traditional afc mistake of making my life revolve around her.

As for the sex itself, its good, but there is only so much I can do, because she has a small problem... she cant come... she cant come with me, and she never came with anyone else before, she can only come when she uses her vibrator alone.

I am really unhappy with the way it is, what do you guys think advise me to do?

I suggest you read the Sex God Method if you haven't already, try using that to your advantage when you DO have sex.

If she can orgasm alone and not with you, it's that she doesn't feel comfortable. No one would like having sex if they cant climax.

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