| Hey guys, so here is my problem. There a girl I was briefly introduced to in my uni, and I think I really like her. I started to think how I can win her, and this is what I did: I called her a couple of days before her exam, (She is 19, and I am 21, and we are studying the same major). I told her that I am going to guess whats going to come in your exam, and if I get it right, you go out with me for dinner, and if I get wrong, you go out with me for lunch (a bit too straightforward interest maybe?). In the end my wild guess was actually validated, and we went out for dinner the day she finished her exam. The date went on great,we were talking all through out the evening, and it was really positive. Two days later, she left the country for 10 days of vacation. We talked on SPAM a few times when she was on vacation.
Now I have a mutual friend who kind of tells me what she thinks about me and everything, and she told me that the girl really had fun with me and thought I was a real gentleman (the mutual friend is a girl btw). A few days after she came back, I asked her out again, but she had a lot of exams, and she apologized, and we didnt talk after that for a week.
Then I started talking to her on SPAM again, on a Monday, and she had an exam on Saturday. I made the same if my guess is right we go out deal with her. Luckily for me, I got it right again. We agreed to go out on Wednesday. On Tuesday ( a day before the date ) I confirmed the date, but she told me on Wednesday the same day we had to go out before few hours that we have to postpone the date , and we ended up not going out... I told the mutual friend to find out what happened, and then the friend told me that the girl feels she is not ready for a new relationship, and she is not completely over her ex....
The next day, I talked with the girl over SPAM and told her that she got it all wrong, and that I only wanted her to be my friend, and that I had no other intention(I do want her obviously). She said that thats good news and now she feels good....
We are going out this Wednesday "as friends", and I plan on not talking to her until then, and I will try to distance myself in order to: 1) prove my claim that I only want to be friends, and 2) to try and make her come after me...
What do you guys think I should do? Should I cancel Wednesday? Should I keep this new distance plan? How do I get out of the friendzone? Thanks a lot for your help in advance.
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