Hello everybody,

My girlfriend of two and half months broke up with me a month ago because I was "hypotonic" and I had to "wake up" and take initiative and be more energetic.Since then I have only contacted her once, about two weeks ago and told her I still wanted to be with her.She was negative and told me her feelings had changed since the beginning of our relationship and that it was over.Since then I met her few times at school and just waved "Hello" with a cheerful smile.

She avoids looking at me..why is that?

Since I've made the mistake of contacting her and broke the No Contact Rule ,when should I contact her? 3-4 weeks after the break up or the after the break up meeting?

I have changed a lot of things on mysefl since then like cloths,hairstyle,me beard, started a band and became more energetic and realised all the things that made the attraction go away.

How should I approach her again? I can see that she isn't happy about it either.She looks really serious at classes. What are the best moves I can pull to bring her back to me?


(I am sorry if this is not the appropriate section)

Don't. Move on.

Promise yourself that you won't even think about contacting her until you've successfully picked up 1 HB8 and slept with her on the first date.

Sounds like oneitis, bro

Sarge your balls off to get out of your funk. My ex dropped me and after I made hot passionate monkey love with a new yoga girl two weeks later, I don't even think about the ex.

Remember...it's a man's world