Hey everyone,

This girl who I was dating and I recently had the talk about being committed to each other and agreed we were both in. Since we talked about being together, I've definitely been more excited to get in touch with her. I'm starting to think I'm being emotionally needy. Like I know I feel disappointed if I say something sweet and her reaction is less.

I started to notice it and been limiting what I say, but sometimes it just comes out. I'm not saying I'm declaring my undying love for her or anything like that, it's more messages along the lines that say she's on my mind. She does say sweet things to me too on her own and when she does I make it a point to reply in kind, I guess just to reinforce that if she says nice things they get a nice reaction out of me.

Like I said earlier, I think I'm starting to get emotionally needy. I find I am looking for a reaction out of her rather than not expecting anything. I feel as if I should pull back now before it's too late and stop being so sweet, but I'm also thinking I should cut down on my contact with her for now. In cutting down on contact with her though, I am scared I will push her away.

Do you guys think that it's the right thing to do? Or should I maintain the level of contact but cut down on being sweet to her?

Thanks in advance to anyone who can help

you should maintain your sweetness to her until she realize that your love is true, because if you loved someone you don`t need an any exchange. and i think you need to talk both of you and need a open communication on each other to understand what is the real feelings between in your relationship. always maintain a good relationship if you really love her, in that way you both of us makes happy.don`t over react about her as long as there is no problem in your relationship. if you have a doubt in your partner your relationship with her will not last, you must trust her because she loves you.