I have younger GF (17) am 22. We’re together for 2 month, but we were arguing a lot for most of the times about stupid stuff. I have found that is because of this girl, and I have lost my inner game. So I read a lot of articles about not writing to her etc.. And it seems to work. However, as usual she said some stupid stuff. Last night, I asked her that I need companion for one ball and if she could go with me, she knew about it for a few weeks. She told me that she has invitation for one party and she doesn’t know proper date and she is still waiting for that date. Firstly I said ok but that I need to know it ASAP. However after a while I almost burst up that she is considering going with friends to a party but not with me…. After a few arguments she told me that she is trying to move to another date. However it was a lot of negative energy for both of us.
We talked about that that it is not good for us. (A lot of negative energy) Another reason is that she is sick for two weeks and we had been together just a few times.
I said that it enough and I want to break up if we do not change our attitude. She told me also that she hates that negative stuff in our relationship and that she was also thinking how to escape from that. However, we also agreed that we have good time when we are together and we would like to stay together. I told her that she has to think positively about our relationship and that it will change. And it seems at the end of the day that it works.

But help me, how should I avoid this negative stuff? I easily burst up when she say something stupid or bad, and it takes a lot of energy to me and also my GF. What should I do?


Thanks a lot for answering

These forums are not for dating advice Blondie. Find a dating board for that.

It's clear that you have a lot of confidence issues. Normal at 22. Maybe get out of relationships for a while and get comfortable with yourself. Also, being single you can work on your game and come back and ask some PUA questions.