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For instance, about a month ago, she told me she met the guy she dated before me (dated him for around the same amount of time) for lunch.
This is questionable depending on the situation. If they bumped into each other and decide to eat and catch up, fine. But this was planned it could be bullshit.
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he tried to kiss her.
To be expected, but not something to upset about unless this was a repeated over and over by this same dude.
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She said she turned her head and explained to him she was dating me, then she said she still hung out with him after in her place. Then she told me she met up with him for lunch again a couple weeks ago and told her that were boyfriend/girlfriend.
Now this, this is complete bullshit. She fucked this dude at her place, a girl is not going to invite an ex back to her place after he has tried to kiss her and she turn him down, unless she wanted something else from him. She invited him back to her place cause she didnt want to be seen in public kissing him while being in a relationship with you. Also, sometimes the best place to hide something is right out in the open. She did this by telling bout the dude trying to kiss her and then him coming back to her place. That way you feel somewhat like she is not lieing to you about anything because she is telling you everything that happened(while omitting some of it). Plus by telling you this it helps her relieve some of the guilt to make it alright in her mind what she did.
One thing I forgot to mention. This happened when we weren't official yet (hadn't had the talk) but we were seeing each other 3 times per week/talking everyday for the last like 7 months before.
I've asked her in many ways (discreet, direct) and she has maintained she hasn't slept with anybody else since about the 1 month mark when we stopped using protection.
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