What this dude was dating is a train wreck. She's a train wreck. And how do you not cause the train to derail? To extend the tracks so the train wouldn't derail. Who is extending those tracks; obviously the man by doing favours, free dinners etc, in exchange for sex. She's no different than Heidi Fleiss; though at least her girls made a lot of money from famous people.

Casual drifters and rebound girls are train wrecks. If you don't date them, you won't have this problem. Problem is, we do date them because they are so much fun and so sexually active in the bed. But because we know that things like this don't last forever, we do whatever we must do to extend the train tracks long enough so we can enjoy the sex long enough because of the eventual separation. Some misunderstood this as a proper long term relationship. It's not. It's a relationship the woman or man is reliving because both parties or at least one of them never gone through the proper "un-bonding process". This is a selfish act period. The rule of thumb I was taught was for every 5 years of relationship, you need at least 1 to 2 years of unbonding. Which means, no dating of girls for men and no dating of guys for women period for the duration of unbonding. Women, however, need a more thorough unbonding process because they have a serious oneitis issue, or multiple-relapses. When you have relapses, it means you want to do something sexual or being with someone during this period. It's like an addiction. Dating other men or women during the unbonding process DOES NOT reset it. It merely feeds the addiction of the relapses.

The way I test women dating now is to see through their actions with words how many times they mentioned the exes. If they mentioned it 2 to 3 times during the first few months however, then you have a woman who still have a oneitis with her main ex. Even though she thinks she's over with her ex, subconsciously, she still secretly hope she can get back to him again even with she's either the dumper or dumpee. Remorseful acts which she did not work herself out long enough during the un-bonding process will cause hurt and pain to the new men she date again after the breakup. I have met some women who still have oneitis with her main ex even AFTER 10 to 20 years of separation (she married when she was a teen) and she's a train wreck, going from man to man and even gone to sleeping with married men. The sex from them is awesome because they have a LOT of experience dealing with men, so you don't need to train them much. This is in contrast with wholesome women who don't have a lot of sexual partners not excessive emotional baggage. These are the women who won't give you pain and you don't need to unbond often.

Sadly, a lot of women I'm attracted to are women who have oneitis issues, because of the sex. So see this as a lightbulb that you can not make up with this woman because she's gone. If you do make up, it will be double hurt for you because she doesn't feel the same way towards you. Understand this and memorize it. You won't get hurt until you understand this process.

Don't blame these women for what they've done to you. You have to accept some of the blame. If you believe in karmic debt, then all these women are doing to you what you did to them in your past life. Meaning that you were once a woman and that you used men the same way as your woman used you. But because a woman can not feel the pain you're suffering now, you need to be a man in this life period to experience it.
Ever wonder why some of us are born with a gift of knowing how women tick and how we crave for sex often!!?