Hi what is your opinion on this topic, i cant find out wether i just should accept the fact that other guys wants her when they see her at parks and stuff when she is tanning in her short shorts, or if it is like okay that it bothers me and take up the discussion with my gf?

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Dude, if she's out tanning obviously she's going to wear skimpy shit. Deal with it man. She's YOUR girl. They can look all they want, but you're the one who has it. Be secure in your relationship.

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I have a funny story, i had this girl, with huge breasts, double D's, awesome fun those. I had just come out of a relationship when i met this girl, so i did not really have strong feelings for her at the time, and i would actually encourage her to show them off . After this girl and I started getting more serious, i fucking hated it when she would show cleavage! Luckily for me, i spoke to her about it, made some excuse about my friends always staring at her boobs, and i made a date out of it we went shopping for a few new "good girl" tops together. If you feel strongly about it, mention it to her, but do not come across as insecure! You need to have a better reason than you don't feel comfortable with it!

That still sounds insecure as hell.

Better to just leave it, if a girl is going to cheat, she is going to cheat.

Let's take the conversation a little deeper.

I agree that being insecure about your girl dressing slutty and other guys wanting to nail her is not a great way to live your life. Better to be proud of the fact that the girl your with is a hotty.

However, I wonder in some instances if the problem is jealousy or insecurity that you're not man enough and because of that she will cheat? Or is the problem possibly that she dresses like this because she needs the validation from guys constantly and that makes you feel like you're not doing enough, saying enough, or being enough to satisfy her. Maintain your frame and composure. If you think she is doing this to seek validation, ask yourself if you've neglected her or if you feel like you should be doing something different. If the answer is no, then maintain your frame, and accept the fact that the woman you're with may have some elements of "freak" in her that you, and no man on earth, can satisfy at the moment. It's up to you too at any point to decide that you do not want to be with a woman who has this issue.

It's entirely possible that women need the validation because of their own issues, not because you aren't good enough or treating her well enough, etc. Should that be the case, then you will accept that she wants guys to slobber all over her, and when she's had enough, she wants you to pound the bottom out of her for good measure.

I think all the person have the same problem in this forum.Because mostly people don't trust on their girl friend and trust on what the other person are saying.I think first if you really believe on your girl friend than you don't need to keep these thinks in your mind.And you don't criticize her on what she wearing because if you do that everyone say that you are on fault.So you try to cover up that.

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thanks man I can really see what your point is!

Well I found out and I actually think I knew it before, that she just hates to wear clothes in general, she sleeps naked every night, and she loves to get tanned, and have as little clothes on as possible so most of her skin is like free.
So now I know I just need to give her freedom to wear whatever she wants to wear!

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