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PostPosted: Sun Mar 03, 2013 4:40 pm 
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Got a call from her mother this morning, she attempted suicide and hanged herself. Fortunately they got to her in time. She's in hospital now being stabilized and recovering. What the hell is going on? This isn't normal to me. Do I support her, be there for her or do I distance myself and focus on my life and in doing so cause another attempt (God forbid a succesful one)? I'm only 21, this should not be happening to me
Distance yourself man shes not right in the head right now. If you support her all your going to do is REGRESS back to where you were. She needs help far more than what you could do she needs PROFESSIONAL help.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 03, 2013 5:43 pm 
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What the fck does that have to do with anything ? A person who'd do something like that is not right in the head.

Yeah,sure,you can play a charity case and support her. Fuck yourself up just to make her better,why not. It's not like your life has any importance over that of a complete psycho.



MOVE ON MAN !Ignore every call,every attempt , anything. Tell her parents to fuck off and stop calling you when she does stupid shit because you do not want that in your life.

Most importantly , if she does kill herself , it's not your problems or fault. By supporting her you'll only let her cling even more onto you and she'll probably try the same shit the next time you wanna move on. And God forbid you actually end up marrying a girl like that.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 03, 2013 5:50 pm 
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So I just found out from her parents that she isn't in hospital, she never actually even tried suicide. She stole her mom's phone and asked an older friend of hers to pose as her mom and feed me these stories. She thought I'd go running home because of guilt and everything (which I almost did) where she'd see me face to face and work her emotional manipulation.
Lol this girl is so crazy. I'm glad she did this, my attraction and respect for her are all but gone! Makes completely cutting her out so easy now.

I have to say she's very good at lying and manipulation. I've seriously never met anyone as ruthless and cunning. I wonder what happened to her, What went wrong in her life. I don't believe people are born that way


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 03, 2013 5:53 pm 
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R.C. I hear you man, and you making alot of sense. Running to her would've set me back big time. I'm moving onwards, not looking now


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 1:17 am 
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Holy shit dude!!!!

GET AWAY FROM THIS GIRL!!! Get a new phone and change your number. She is quite clearly unhinged


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 5:24 pm 
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It's you who didn't let her go. Are you one of those trying to save a damsel in distress kind of guy? Or are you married? Married men usually go for these type
Must admit I kinda did wanna save her, she seemed so innocent and vulnerable at first. But she turned out so vicious and crazy. I thought I could help her get through all the lies and bad behaviour and make her a better person. I realise now I was fighting a losing battle
You can not help fix damaged goods. You can, however, provide support for her to allow her see the light especially if she's older. She probably has a difficult childhood with an abusive father figure and that translates to her wanting a guy like her dad, abusive and arrogant. The men she dates and fuck with are equally damage goods too. There comes a point in life that this life style can not simply continue. Men want to fuck young women, not 40 to 50 years old. So her supply of fuck buddies dry up because she's been out-maneuvered by other younger screwed up girls, then she will probably see the light. If you hang on long enough then, yes you can probably help her to fix her own problem. But man, there are tons of girls out there with much less problems and cleaner pussies then her. Are you willing to father more of her flings?!?

Unless you can be Jekyll and Hyde with a split perfect personality -- be a bad boy and screw her bad, then switch the personality around and be a nice carrying guy. Yeah, we all hope that, but reality says she rather have 2 guys; one getting her pussy punched like a jack hammer and the other paying the bills for the aftermath!


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 05, 2013 6:42 am 
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So I just found out from her parents that she isn't in hospital, she never actually even tried suicide. She stole her mom's phone and asked an older friend of hers to pose as her mom and feed me these stories. She thought I'd go running home because of guilt and everything (which I almost did) where she'd see me face to face and work her emotional manipulation.
Lol this girl is so crazy. I'm glad she did this, my attraction and respect for her are all but gone! Makes completely cutting her out so easy now.

I have to say she's very good at lying and manipulation. I've seriously never met anyone as ruthless and cunning. I wonder what happened to her, What went wrong in her life. I don't believe people are born that way
My ex pulled a similar stunt just before NYE, the day I dumped her. And she too had this manipulative behavior - hence the dumping part. You should just stay away from her for good. I read through your thread and I am fairly convinced that the girl suffers from one of the disorders from the Cluster B. More likely she has Borderline Personality Disorder.
Read this LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread ... 705&page=4
and see if it fits the bill.
Anyway, go no contact for good. I know why it is so hard for you to let her go, but you have to. For your sake.


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