So ita a really long story so I'll just make it short and answer your questions if you have any.

My girlfriends life is not going so well. She lives with me an as a result she is starting to miss her old life with her ex and things use to be. Basically it is confusing her because she is now starting to think she might still have feelings for him, even though I know for sure it's just the idea of him because life was good when she was with him. So how do I fix this, I'm doin everything in my power to help he life back together but she is drifting away from me because her old life was much better( not necessarily the relationship but life in general). How can I fix this?

Things like school, work, death, and family problems are among the main issues

sounds like she might need to talk to a therapist. maybe nothing you can help her with.

If external factors are dictating the SPAM in the relationship. It is not strong enough. A relationship should always GIVE energy, instead of DRAINING it.

Usually you won't find out what the problem is until you take a break. And that a REAL break, so no talking over the phone or stuff like that. Perhaps both being single for a while is best.

I know this sounds kind of hars. But I have been there b4 and wished I applied this tactic, it would have saved me lots of pain and time.

Good luck!

Buccaneer

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