So things fell apart pretty badly with my ex. Safe to say I was a bit of a bitch when we broke up. I lost a lot of value trying to get her back. However, I cut her off for a couple of months. We grabbed coffee and she agreed she go on a date with me. But she doesnt want funny business. She said that she doesnt want to complicate things with me. I said it wont be complicated if we have an agreement just to have fun. Whats your guys advice on what I should do. I was gonna take her to a hotel, dinner, go dancing. Is it bad to be too romantic? i.e candles in jacuzzi etc. Let me know what you guys think. Cheers.

AND. Being able to sexually escalade with the girl after losing so much value before. She see's how much I've changed. (better shape, lots going on for me) but I dont want to shove it down her throat (my ego) hahahah.

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Nope your chasing to hard with the romance and Jacuzzi an dinner. You need to act cool not try to a bully her in to seeing how cool you think you are. I would say go for a walk get a coffee maybe just chat her up and make her smile.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Make her laugh and smile. = the Key. Don't try and be too romantic right now.

I've already taken her out to coffee a couple of times. And she knows that the hangout is going to be kind of romantic. Should I tone it down a lot?

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Consider it my last post. Cheers thanks for the advice boys. Good luck sarging.

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