So, I've been dating this girl for a brief time now. I had meet her previously through my circle of friends, and ended up running into her on campus about a month ago. At this time SHE suggested that we hang out, and asked me to exchange numbers. She has a reputation for getting around, so I figured she would be an easy lay none the less. I ended up meeting her at a party and going back to her place that night. I attempted to close, but she told me she didn't want to have sex unless she was in a relationship, (I did manage to get her to give me a blowjob though ).
I was unsure about having a relationship with this girl at first, but after some thought, I figured, why not. We began spending time together, going out to eat, goodnight kisses, etc. But I still had not sleep with her yet, (mainly due to logistics). Then, last weekend, we went out the the club and she told me that she thought we should keep hanging out, but as friends. She then tells me that their are two other guys who wanna date her as well, and she was very indecisive. This shocked me because, 1.) about fifty percent of the time we talked she initiated txt/calls, and 2.) about fifty percent of the time that we met, she would be the one to make plans, including this particular evening. Ironically enough, I did bring her back to my place that night, and had sex with her the next morning. After this, I did not txt/call her for three days, because I was unsure of my feelings. After no contact, she txt me on Wednesday night, and we had a very brief conversation that led nowhere. My question is, what should I do now? I really like this girl, to the point that I have not gamed any other girl for the past month. But she is being very hot and cold with me. I've thought about trying to turn her into a FB, but I Fear I may like her to much to only have casual sex. Part of me also thinks I should move on, but it's easier said than done. I appreciate any advice or comments, thanks guys.
-Shawn

First off why would you want to be with a girl who has that kind of reputation? And by her saying theres 2 guys who wanna date her as well I'm sure shes living up to it (you ever think that shes doing stuff with them now?) Dude you got a big oneitis because of the sex, move on from this girl freeze her out start going at a crap ton of girls and AT MOST treat this girl like the fuck buddy that she is