Hi,

i have been in a relationship with a girl for the past 5 months.

Before entering into relationship i had made her clear that if she had any intimate relationship with any other guy previously i would not enter into a relationship with her. I myself never had any previous affair. (pls keep in mind that i am an indian and we find it hard to accept previous relationships of our partners).

At that time she told me that she had no intimate relationship in the past. The only thing she told was that she was kissed by her previous boyfriend.

I accepted it and believed her at that time because she told this on swear and i found her honest.

However later on she told me many lies and also changed some versions about her previous relationship.

For example she had told me that after her breakup with her ex boyfriend in year 2010 she never met him. However later on one day she told me that she had met him that year though she didn't do anything with him.

She also has broken many swears many times.

Recently she promised me that she will not talk to a guy with whom she was kind of close but little short of relationship. However she was found talking to that guy.

She told me that he himself approached her and she was not able to ignore otherwise it would have been very awkward.

On the other hand when she becomes suspicious of my talking to any other girl she becomes very angry and wreak havoc.

My problem is that i also suffer from minor OCD, which i had made her aware of.

Partly because of her lies and partly because of my OCD, this relationship has become a pain for me. I have lost my peace of mind and i have no trust at all on my girlfriend.

I want to break up with this girl but the problem is that I love this girl a lot and it makes me very sad whenever i think of parting with her. I have also been intimate with this girl.
Because of this girl i am suffering a lot. My studies and career have ruined.

However, this girl tells me that she loves me a lot and i should trust her.

I don't know what to do. Even if you suggest me break up please tell me a way so that we both dont get hurt a lot.

Please help me......

Even if you love her, she's breached your trust and will likely never earn it again, considering she's a dirty liar. Would you be frowned upon by your society/culture if you went out looking for more girls? Because that's the easiest way to recover and keep your mind off of things.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

I think this guy has to learn that the girls in the U.S.A has history and aint that many female virgins making it to the age of 21, so most have been fucked...get over it.

Yeah seriously if you cant get over some non issues like past lovers then your going to be alone for a long time. Past is past. It makes the person you are in love with now who she is. If you love this person now then who gives 2 fucks. or 3 if shes a slut.

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