Hi guys,

I need some advice on this matter. I've met this girl a couple of months ago and she's awesome! HB9 for sure.

I've met her before she went on a trip to Central America where she will stay for 4 months. I've met her 4 weeks prior to her trip and everything went great! We saw each other every day. I've had my share of women over the last 7 years but this is different and she felt completely the same!

Anyways during her stay there wasn't one day without contact and we both wanted to see each other so bad. To make a long story short my sister works for an airliner and I got a ticket dirt cheap to fly to her and we both were psyched!

When we've met everything changed for the worst. I felt the same about her although it was weird seeing each other after 2 and a half months, so it took me a day or so to really get into it. The thing is she really misses her home and for some reason me being in CA made her even more sad about leaving it.

Now she's really distant and we've talked about the whole situation. Now I've got about a week left here and I want to change the situation or know how to deal with it once when both back home (she is staying for about a month or so after I leave).

If this keeps up I'll tell her that I really want to be with her, but that I don't want to keep contact until she knows for sure if she want to continue this relationship and stands behind it for at least 100%!

Just to let you guys know we had some awesome times too. We have been on the road and seen so many things together. This whole situation just makes it different than I imagined. She also said that she knows that our relationship works out for sure once she's back home.

I don't know about that ultimatum. it does not seem like you known the girl long enough to to make her commit to you. i wouldn't put any rules on her personally, especially while shes over in a foreign country. just stay in contact and try to ease back into it when she comes back.

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