Basically, this girl who is stunning and a genuinely nice person and I got chatting a while ago and I see her here and there, chat, everything normal.
Situation is she has a boyfriend, living about 2 or 3 hrs away so I don't think sees him that often if ever, everytime I see her out generally shes drank a little more than me and is very "close" to put it. Recently this has got even more so to the point that last night she kept grinding, grabbing my hand and at one point pushed her face in so we were nose-to-nose distance.
I do talk to her a lot throughout the week so its not just a drunk thing, however I'm confused as to do I just kiss her next time she's like that or what? I believe in relationships and the idea of breaking one up isn't an attractive prospect... Also don't want to get loads of shit and be blamed for her behaviour.

Thanks guys

probably best not to do anything when shes had a few drinks. suss her out when shes sober and see if she is interested. try to make it clear that you dont want to just be a friend and that you'd like to get with her. maybe in a joking way say ...we get on so well we'd be a great match and see what she thinks.

If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you too. Alcohol is only an excuse to let her real feelings/side come out. Relax and don't over think things.

That's 110% wrong.Such assumptions have no rational basis.


If a girl is at least half decent ,owns half a brain and is in a happy / prosperous relationship , she will NOT cheat. The fact that she's making these advances towards you means she's not satisfied with the current relationship she's in. Not to an extent in which "I will not cheat on this great guy I'm with" is upheld.

You can't break their relationship simply because it's already broken. It's just waiting to fall apart and she has no intention of putting any effort into mending it.

If you're not gonna take the opportunity , someone else will.


How do you not know the answer to this question ?
Do you want to kiss her ? if you do , stop wasting time !
I think you have a misconception here. You will never,EVER be able to break a real relationship. No one will ever cheat and risk losing something great if they have it. If they don't,they start looking.

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