| I'm like the rebound guy for an ex girlfriend, in that every few months she'll visit and fuck me and is highly responsive, but keeps currently and increasingly complaining more about the relationship she's in and how she wants out.
Most recently she asked if she can gym exercise with me, then rang the same night for a cry about her shit boyfriend. Lately she's been coming over more frequently and I'd find 1 or 2 missed calls every few days. This has been going on for 2 years, with usually large 3 months gaps max in there. How can I convert her from being a dick and a shoulder to cry on, to being either a girlfriend, or a more reliable and more regular
friend with benefits.
I do all the right things : I up play her shit boyfriend, saying stuff like 'I'm sure he's a nice guy', etc., that's worked well. She small talks about me vs. high calibre men. I always remain disconnected completely by saying 'they can have you'. This works really well on her, so I exhaust it. I remain emotionless throughout and walk away, without responding to her, or her phone calls.
I've said 'what do you actually want from this?' and she's said 'to be friends'. I said, 'then visit me in the proper hours that you usually go to see a friend', yet she doesn't. I directly asked 'do you want to get back together?' and she said 'I've changed and there would have to be changes'.
Do I talk more about this, without it being desperate, as surely 2 adults can talk about this kind of shit, or do I keep ignoring her calls?
In appearance terms, she's petite, proportioned and very hot bodied, with a 'cute', but not 'hot' face. Like when I rescue her from a night spot, she gets more hits than a front door, so other men may think differently.
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