I'm in a ltr of 1 year , she loves me to death... There are many signs her attraction is strong ..but there's just a couple things about her that piss me off, one of them being her wandering eyes. It's not that I'm afraid of losing her but I fuckin hate it when we're holding hands and she keeps staring at guys who pass by. I understand its natural to stare , but to keep taking second looks while we're hand in hand is disrespectful in my opinion , even after I explained that it is in my eyes. I told her to stare as much as she wants but ffs don't do it while your with me.

I didn't make a big deal out of it and I.bite my tongue , call me AFC.or whatever the Fuck you want but its rude imo. How would you deal with this ? It ticks me off to the point where I would honestly leave her if someone more decent comes along, not only because of this but also a couple more problems...

I was out with my girl (more than 1 year ltr) once and some random HB walked pass showing 70% of her boobs.I obviously couldn't help but look and she saw me. Her response was:

"Oh,You think she's hot ? You want her ?"
She grabbed my hand and took me to her place and started undressing. Best sex I ever had.She was intent on making her point. And yeah,she did.Big time.After that she arrogantly asked me :"Do you still want her ?"

It was one of the best experiences in my life. 90% of girls would've made a scene about me looking in some chicks boobs and whatnot. Instead,I was shocked by her insane confidence and alphaness. If she had balls they would've been the size of basketballs.

If it's such a huge deal to you just tell her you don't like it and ask her to stop doing it. Or take her home,fuck the living soul out of her and and ask her who's on her mind now.

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When you see a girl, say things like this:

"What do you think about her hair color?"
"Do you like those heels?"
"My sister/cousin has a jacket exactly like that one."
"Why do girls wear leggings like that?"

If you really want to mess with her, make sure you only say these things when you see a specific type of girl. It doesn't have to be what you like, they just have to have similarly distinguishing features. An easy one is girls that look European and have eyeliner like this: imgur . com/4rTy1CA (remove the spaces beside the dot to get the url)

She will start to think that you like that type of girl, and it will drive her fucking nuts. Girls have good senses for this. You'll start to notice that she will watch you like a hawk when a similar type of girl will be around. Don't look at the girl, and revel in glory of trumping her at the game.

The girls are Morena Bacarrin and Stephanie Szostak in case anyone is wondering.

One thing here raised my eyebrow a little bit. You say you would leave her if someone more decent comes along, not just because of this, but because of a couple more problems.

Seems to me perhaps she has the exact same mindset. You say she's crazy about you, but if she was, I doubt she'd even notice the other guys you catch her staring at. Tit for tat man. If you're just waiting around until something better comes along, what's to keep her from doing the same thing?

If I were you, I think I'd hit this one head on and get it out in the open. It gives you the best chance to either reach an understanding where neither of you would leave if something better came along, or change the nature of the relationship such that you're free to pursue something better.

All women check out other men, all of them! Even my mother who has been married forty years checks other men out

My gf just yesterday was checking out some waiter in pizza hut, aslong as she keeps her thoughts to herself and doesn't act on them then who gives a shit?

While she was looking at him i caught a glimpse of some blondie over the other side, it's all natural and i wouldn't even attempt to stop it