Right long story short. I was an afc, made all the classic afc mistakes with girls and just generally didnt understand the "correct" way to behave/act around them in order to become successful. I discovered the game when I was 18, took me a few months of trial and error on nights out to finallly get the hang of it but then I started getting results. After the "cherry popping" and a couple more lays after that my main goal turned to getting a girlfriend, I just wanted to find that special someone.... Anyway I turned 20 gamed this girl, slept with her a few days later and continued seeing her until we eventually decided to start a relationship.

Shes 100 percent the love of my life FACT but my problem is up until 18 I was rubbish with girls then I discover this lifesaving community of stone cold pimps. I got really good considering how weak the old me was and racked up 5 lays (i know its not a lot but understand i was a virgin until 18 lol) and was always chatting/texting some bird everyday but as happy I now am with my girl i REEEEAAAALLY don't want to have to stop gaming. The ideal situation would be me going out practicing game and keeping it all fresh in my head but without cheating. I know most of the people on here will say why would you need to game if 1. your happy with your girlfriend and 2. you have no plans of cheating.

Well its just because game to me is all about the do's and the dont's around women and knowing as a bloke how to act confident and have women looking up to you etc. I dont want that to go so i need to practice...... is this frowned upon even if theirs no intention of cheating and whats your views ??

Cheers all

Depends. What's the purpose of your game while with her ?

I just ended my 3 year relationship. I never stopped 'gaming' girls. It wasn't really gaming what I did,it was just practice. I decided to try and get them to ask for my # or to try to KC me and stuff like that.

Basically I tried to see how far I can get with a girl without ever pulling any trigger.

Anyway,in some cases it might help. Gaming all these different chicks while being with my gf (it was a normal relationship at first but the last 1.5 years were LDR so I had plenty of time) actually made me love her more. The more chicks I met the more I realized mine was better

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I am a firm believer of always gaming and having options.

I wouldn't cheat (hopefully, not put myself in that situation yet) but I am the same confident, flirty guy with other girls, there is just a line. Hot girls regularly have a crowd of guys who all want her and whom she could fuck at any point, I like to try and keep things a bit even and it helps iron out excess jealousy for me.

My intentions are just to keep on practicing game whilst im out on girls I meet. I wouldn't aim to score a kiss or lay but just settle for them asking for my number or something along the lines similar. Just to keep me happy that im not losing it really. I think really I just want to be able to still game because I dont want to lose the "new me" and turn into just another guy who's tied up (even though I am extremly happy with this bird)