So my girl left me a few weeks go.. for the first few days I tried so hard to get her back, then found this site and went NC and also hung out with some female friends and had them post about it on my facebook to make her a little jealous. Anyways she hits me up saying she needs a favor, I was like I dunno you want a favor but dont want anything to do with me? She said shed repay it n shit and I was like I dont want that I want you not to be out of my life and she said we can work on that. So now what do I do here? Should I try to hang with her?

At this point it's too late to freeze her out. But for the love of god stop telling people how much you need them. Even if you get back together with her , you're giving her 100% of the power.

You did good with the facebook jealous thing. When you meet her be fun , be in high spirits and don't , do not give her any more impressions that she's the nr 1 priority in your life. She needs to feel like you're a door that's slowly closing so you're pushing her to make a decision. Don't just straight up tell her that the door will forever be open to her.

In other words , make her want you back don't beg her to come back.

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Exactly what he said, I'd also suggest you talk to some other girls theres nothing wrong with some side girls if this doesn't work out

we hung out for 2 days she kept pulling away when i tried to have sex but we had some nice kisses.. i dunno what to do i know shes talking to other guys too im not sure why she even came over she said she wanted to see me but doesnt wanna fuck?

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Not constructive... but pretty funny

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Honestly move on. I kno that sounds hard... but itll be the best decision you make. IF this girl is playing these games and is making you think she is talking to other guys and isnt putting out?? Drop her... go flirt... go fuck around... have fun! If she is doing this stuff now what makes u think 1 yr from now she wont pull the same stuff?? and you would have wasted a yr of ur life chasing this girl...for nothing.

In the situation like the other posters said you must always be in control... the best way to lose a girl is to become needy. The best way to win one over is to pretend like u dont give a fuck and go hang out with a lot of other girls... This will make ur current girl super insecure.... make u look and feel like a pimp (giving u a ton of confidence) and if done correctly she will become super attracted to u.... but then again so will ALL the other HBS.

GL