My older brother's wife is a good friend of mine and she openly told me that she thinks I am handsome and very attractive. However, she is my brother's wife, there are dudes I would sleep with before her.

Rough operator and Pinkster thanks for your response.

Maybe I'm the jealous type and I don't want my wife showing any other man interest at all. That's not seen as a positive thing on this forum but in a monogamous relationship in a conservative culture (which my family is) ogling at your brother in law is not seen as a positive thing either.

I think posting on this forum has got it off my chest for starters and with some of the replies I've got I'm think whatever now. She can check out whoever she wants now and it wouldn't bother me as much.


It also has helped me realize maybe I've started developing the one-itus syndrome and I should up my game (it was good enough to attract her in the first place).