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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 7:04 pm 
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this is so hard but ive been no contact for a few days now.. she messaged me last night and i ignored it.. she messaged me this morning and i ignored it.. i think i should do this for 3 weeks til february hits and she realizes valentines day is coming. then whats a good plan for that? i was thinking slowly start to talk to her a bit at the beginning of the month, take it nice and slow, then maybe send a dozen roses to her house on valentines day with a note saying something like "just wanted to make sure you got flowers on this day" ??


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 7:13 pm 
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No. Absolutely do not send flowers on Valentine's Day, stop with that soppy shit.

From what you've said about this girl, I would recommend maintaining no contact forever and actually finding a woman of true quality.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 7:33 pm 
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No. Absolutely do not send flowers on Valentine's Day, stop with that soppy shit.

From what you've said about this girl, I would recommend maintaining no contact forever and actually finding a woman of true quality.
i dont care what anyone thinks i want her back and love her more than anything. why is sending flowers on valentines day a bad thing after blowing her off for a month beforehand?


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 8:00 pm 
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shes now moved from texting to calling me which ive ignored so far.. i guess im on the right track as hitting me up to talk about a cat seems retarded.. she must just be keeping tabs on me. i think making this girl sweat for 3 weeks will really get in her head.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 12, 2013 11:53 pm 
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i dont care what anyone thinks i want her back and love her more than anything. why is sending flowers on valentines day a bad thing after blowing her off for a month beforehand?
Because you need to reframe the relationship, you can't just go silent for a while and then boom! You're the doting boyfriend again.

If you come back (hint: you shouldn't) then you need to be cool and confident and put the brakes on things to stop yourself getting attached again. The way this is going you're simply setting yourself up for a worse heartbreak further down the line.


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i dont care what anyone thinks i want her back and love her more than anything. why is sending flowers on valentines day a bad thing after blowing her off for a month beforehand?
Because you need to reframe the relationship, you can't just go silent for a while and then boom! You're the doting boyfriend again.

If you come back (hint: you shouldn't) then you need to be cool and confident and put the brakes on things to stop yourself getting attached again. The way this is going you're simply setting yourself up for a worse heartbreak further down the line.
yeah im not even sure i want to talk to her anymore after getting my head clear. im already talking to this girl my cousin introduced me to who i was talking to already but put the brakes on being i was with somebody. shes just as pretty, my age, and my cousin says wants a real relationship too. i think i want the pleasure of this skank crawling back to me so i can reject her though


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