I need some insight and probably seeking validation. thanks in advanced for your help. Ive been played out to be an insecure person in the eyes of her friend and other people. The last string was when one of my managers was play fighting with her and she ended up telling him ''thats how i like it'' he came up to me laughing and telling me all about it. to me thats disrespect on her part.

- Before that she added her ex to see what he was up to (this guy always brings up the past and tells her that deep down he know she still loves him)
-i asked her to delete his pic of her phone and came to find out she saved it to her email before deleting
-she made a dating profile a month into our relationship she said it was just for fun
-when she gets mad she says im glad he messaged me today..?she said she did it to piss me off

Now shes befriending my friends?

long post but i just want to know what you think. am i insecure or do i have a good reason to next her?

You had a fucking good reason to next her.

Yes, perhaps you are a little insecure, but she hasn't done anything to reinforce your trust and clearly doesn't respect your feelings. My ex-ex-girlfriend knew I had some insecurities, but she was very understanding and respectful of my feelings and I was able to cope with them fine and improve upon them and they were never a problem in our relationship and we ended on good terms.

I don't know her but from what you've said she sounds like a manipulative, toxic bitch that you don't need in your life.

thanks bra i appreciate your response

You were right she defintely disrespected you with the manager thing and each point you made about the warning signs esp the dating profile shows that she didn't respect you and held your value compared to hers in the relationship as really really low. Go out sarging and find some more girls you'll find one that at least respects you

Fist off , she's not over him. Secondly , anyone who says something like that and doesn't come back crawling on their knees begging for forgivness is either:

1. An idiot.
2. A bitch.

Idiot because she has NO idea how WRONG it is to say that to your current partner. It's simply a braindead move. To say to your current boyfriend, that ur glad ur EX messeged you today, is basically killing your relationship there and then. Why ? because it destroys any trust foundation that might have / could have been built. Simple as that.

A bitch because ... well , she either doesn't care for you and hasn't got enough balls to tell you this straight forwards ( hence , a bitch ) , or that's how she is in general , which you ALWAYS WANT TO AVOID.

So yeah,take your pick.

Only upside to this is the crawling back on her knees part. If she does that , you might want to reconsider,otherwise , Next please.

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Insecure or not, she doesnt sound like she is worth keeping. good ridance.