Hey guys I'm new to this but I shall get straight to the point. Basically I been dating this girl for about 3 months now and It's the first girl I really have ever had strong feelings for she adores me and is always spending time with me everything was going sweet yeah we had a few bumps so far but nothing major.

A week ago I was at a gatho with her and a few friends, I got into a massive argument on the phone and threw it on the ground then did it again after she had picked it up for me I was yelling and really aggressive my friends and her told me. Seems like fuck all and absolutely stupid but stay with me here. We went out and then I got started an ended up in a bit of a fight with another dude which I solved. Now she tells me that I took all my anger out on her and as girls are they bring you're problems on themselves and believe me she was in a foul mood all night! She tells me that I have made her feel really shit and unwanted and she never wants to feel like that again and we should stop "getting with each other" SPAM. However she sent me this through text like a week later. Now I called her up and spoke to her about it, she was crying to her friends the night we fought and they all told her they have never seen her like that before she is pretty much traumatised from the situation.

I did tell her that I am sorry and she knows that I would never intentionally hurt her but it's the fact that it did happen, she still wants to hang out an she still cares about me! After the phone call she sent me a text pretty much a run through of what I said and I replied "I understand".

From then on it goes like this!

her: sorry
her: so now your just going to ignore me (next morning)
her: I don't know what else to do, I still want to talk I care about you a lot, I've tried to help you calm you down and do everything for you but I understand if you don't want to talk for a while.. just let me know!

and 2 missed calls!

KEEP IN MIND I have done a lot for this girl no bullshit it's not a one way street!

My plan is to burn her for a bit because apparently she will get over it and she won't want to bring it all up again she will just be happy to talk to me. maybe leave it until tomorrow or tonight?

What do you guys think? How do I resolve the issue I like the girl I want to be with her however I don't want to be walked over, Is there anything I can say or do?? HELP ME please

What's the issue here? Apologise and hang out with her, this isn't anything you can't work through/

She said she wants to chill SPAM like not get with each other were her words, reason because she has never felt so shit, stressed, and unwanted before, her friends apparently have never seen her like that to. She sums it up with I never want to feel like that again and I made her feel like that.

I like the girl she makes me happy and I don't want to let her go, what should I do sit down an talk to her about it all like she took responsibility for my problems and after 3 months she's just going to give up on one issue??

sounds like you're freezing her out? no dude.. that's shit. you fucked up, man up and apologize. she feels like shit and not talking to her it's making it worse. you got violent and it sounds like you legitimately scared her and threatened her comfort. never get violent in front of a girl unless it's in self defense. you need to work hard to show her she can feel comfortable and safe with you. that will happen by talking to her and earning her trust.

It's that fact that she said she wants to chill SPAM. I said sorry and she's said she knows I didn't mean to but it's the fact that it has already happen? To me it sounds like she has already made up or mind or unless there is another reason?