been with GF for 1.5 years.

dealt with retarded ex issues at first (she was recovering 3.5 yr relationship)

been steady for about a year now.

but now im wondering; because shes the type who basically cant stay single.

so, she got out of the other relationship, but got right into another one (with me) .

and so its like, i cant help but feel that, this broad really didnt like me for me so to speak, it was more out of convenience (and neediness). have to admit on my part it was also convenient, but i also was the selector.

so is this just a mindfuck? and alot of relationships end up like this and can be very successful because the girl just gets drawn into the guys reality?

or is this something else?

thanks

It is a strong, strong, strong opinion that I hold that you should never care why someone got into a relationship with you. Only why they stay.

Why has she been with you for the last year and a half? Still think it's just convenience, and neediness?

To be honest I don`t think I have EVER known a girl who has wanted to stay single. Within a couple of months they always start going out with someone after a break up. Most just swing from one to the next. Don`t sweat it. She`s with you now and has been for some time.

fair points. i think i lack the self esteem i desire and tend to let these irrational theories creep up on me

haha It's pretty normal actually. After a break up I've gone all the way back to the beginning in my head. I'm like "I knew you were trouble when you walked in. So shame on me now"... That's a Taylor Swift reference if anyone's asking. It's silly is all Im saying