Hey guys,

Didnt know where to put this and hope the mods move it if its necessary but yeah, to the point..


The title kind of says it all. Lets say you have a few women and you want to have fun with everyone. Their not "the one" But you still wanna go out, watch movies, flirt and do things which lead to ..other things. You dont want to be an ass, but you dont want to be somebodys property. The problem is that usually it gets really emotional... And it feels after that its a get together/go separete ways situation. How to not loose these ladyfriends when they start to ask, "so where is this going to?" Thats kinda the the question...

I would wanna hear from you guys the different variations of getting through this problem..


Cheers, Ca

Be honest. If you like her, but don't want to enter a relationship with her, you say that. It's the only thing that will work for the both of you. Or, if you want to drag it out, say "I like you, but I'm not entirely sure yet where this will go because you fill me with a lot of strong emotions". It will intruge her, and most likely let her wait.