I'm new to the game guys..but here goes.

Background:
So I met this this chick (single and a typical nice girl) about a month ago and she hangs in my dorm almost daily. We go out clubbing every weekend and I eventually decided I wanted her. I started seeing IOIs the second time we went out and finally k-closed with her. The problem starts here..I got black out drunk and cussed her later on that night. I did the nice guy thing and apologized the next day. She gave me the LJBF speech the very next day (she said, "We are too different"), and I did the stupid thing and chased her for about a week.

The current situation:
I cut all contact with this girl for 2 days. After two days she knocked on my door and brought me food randomly (IOI or just wants to be friends again..idk, I'm new remember lol). I started getting all "buddy buddy" with her again and went to the club later on that night. I tried k-closing like 3 times and it didn't work. Later on, we left the club and took the cab back. I was pretty drunk and we discussed our relationship in my dorm. I ended up telling her that it's either we be together or we can't be friends anymore.


Was this the wrong thing to do?
What should I do, freeze out and find another girl?! I am clueless!

P.S. Thanks for the help guys

ok.

first thing.1) why did you cuss her? drunk is not an excuse. if you have anger issues or some other wack shit, fix it

2)cutting all contact is gay. she wants to be friends with you. so be friends with her. wats the problem? would you rather have her in your life or not? personally i enjoy having female friends.

HOWEVER

something that i enjoy more is fucking the shit out of a hot attractive female. so get your priorities STRAIGHT.

you want to fuck, she wants a friend. ok fine, she doesnt want what you want, so you move on and find what you want. you dont really want "her". she is just a representation of what you want. she happens to be there around you all the time, so you make this idea that you want her.

but all you really want is to get LAID. and once you get laid, the relationship follows.

so heres what you do:

keep her as a friend, but dont let get in the way of your shit. dont go out of your way for her, start doing other things that dont involve her, basically show her that YOURE OK with her wanting to just be friends, but that basically means that she will lose alot of benefits.

right now, she has all the benefits of you, so she doesnt need to give anything up cuz shes getting all the validation from you.

you take it away, spend it elsewhere (perhaps on getting LAID with another hottie) and guess what,
magically the old girl will want you now.

You are right the only reason I wanted her is because of that nice body and she is always hanging around me. I guess it's back to working on the game. Thanks for the help man.