Here's my situation:

Due to my insecurities, I cannot dump my current girlfriend. *
I've planned on meeting this girl in a week - she's really into me but she doesn't know I have a girlfriend.

I'm planning on continuing dating both of them and adding more girls later, ultimately dumping the current girlfriend in the future.

What should I do? Lying about exclusiveness isn't smart because she'll eventually find out about my girlfriend.
Telling her "I date other girls" would be a pretty good solution, but HOW to do it and when?

* BEFORE you kill me with fire over this, keep in mind that it's not the main topic. I will open up a separated topic regarding my current unstable, unhealthy relationship later.

This question is entirely situational for me. Girls come in a lot of different varieties and I tend to respond accordingly. What I typically do, is allude to the fact that I date other women. I do this by incorporating other women or dates into the stories I tell. For example, I like telling about my bad experiences with online dating. It's funny, and it brings up the fact that I date other women. Or, alternately, I'll tell the story about the first time I went to a swinger's party or about a particularly bad MONOGAMOUS relationship I was in ages ago (then rant about all the reasons monogamy sucks). Stuff like that.. tailor it to your own experiences.

Some women will ask a lot of questions. If they ask, then I always answer truthfully, without getting too specific. Some women WONT ask any questions, because they can't handle it and they don't want to know. On some level they realize that I date other woman, but the less they know about it the better. At that point I just let it go with the "don't ask, don't tell" policy. These women never become more than FB's though.

My method PROBABLY isn't the most popular method, but it brings me peace of mind and helps me screen for the type of girls I want (i.e. polyamorous). I always tell girls, "I'm an asshole, but an honest asshole."

-Wolf

_________________
Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

Well. Would she be OK with it or not is the actual, underlying question. If she would be, you wouldn't have to worry about the timing.

Would she consider this to be cheating? If yes, this is unfair to her. But if you're the believer of "What the eyes cannot see, the heart cannot feel", you could opt for this. Everyone has their own set of morals.

I would date one and dump the other though, but that's just me, a believer of monogamy.

_________________
Women are plenty, time is not.