homewrecking - 1. (v) A man (or woman) who knows a woman (or man) is taken and is willing to pursue the opportunity to mess up a healthy relationship. 2. (n) The act of one who homewrecks; the break-up of a married couple, especially of a family, by tempting either partner out of their commitment.

Homewrecking is looked down upon by society, as who in the right mind would destroy a perfectly normal relationship between two good people?

Has this ever happened to you?
You game HBs in public venues (malls, college campuses, etc), and as the interaction progresses, you learn that the HB has a boyfriend (assuming that this info is 100% true). You decide not to interfere with her relationship, but as you keep gaming other HBs, you soon realize that most of them are already taken!! You finally decide to play in dangerous territory by not just hitting on single babes, but babes who have boyfriends.

So you ask yourself: when is it good to homewreck? Aren't we homewrecking by picking up an already-taken babe? Is it unethical to homewreck, or are there exceptions?

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

relationships in western culture is an open market (unless married). Supply and demand- if someone is constantly chopping and changing they should eventually end up at an equilibrium. If they cheat once or twice maybe they will end up on the extreme ends of really good or really shit relationships, but if they are doing it all the time they should according to the invisible hand of the economy, end up with an average stable relationship. nothing to gain in the long term with this strategy

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

Nah, never good mate..

But if they're not yet married and you caught them in your way.. nothing wrong about it.

Girls won't flirt around if they feel 100% secure and comfortable in their relationship!

I've known people in happy relationships and guess what? They don't cheat!

If the girl is willing to cheat or break up with her guy then obviously she is not happy with him and you are not really home wrecking in the strictest sense of the term.

Unless there's like a bunch of kids involved then it's not really a big deal. Some single dude wouldn't hesitate to steal your hot girl and wife her, so why would you not do the same to him?

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

I agree with ninja. I used to beat myself up over sleeping with my ex who was married, when her husband eventually found out. But you know what? If it was a healthy relationship, she wouldn't want to cheat - so consider this, by gaming them you are just facilitating an early end to an unhealthy relationship and in the end doing them both a favor.