im have been spending time with a girl, its been about 2 to 3 month, we live in diffrent country, only see each other for about 2 times every 2 weeks, when she come to my country to be with her dad and sist who lives in the same apartment as me. she's just got over a relationship. but she always ask to see me even just hangin out at my place for a bit, so far she put pict of me on her facebook, and blackberry messager, met her familly, and her sist gives a hint that were more than friend. so we are in somekind of relationship right?, im keeping it cool while ocasionaly get flirty, tease her and call her my girl. she still in contact with her ex, sometime she talk about it and i just ignore her, so she appologizes after. and ahe gets hit on by bunch other guys.

so the thing is we have fun together, she's all attached to me, wants to SPAM all the time, text me all the time, always laughing.. but still in contact with her ex and probably talking with other guys

i want her for my self, but im not even clear what relationship were having
your advise, comment, though guys?

what constitutes a relationship is different for different couples and culture, but you both should be sharing more intimacy than whatever it is you share with others. you never said you were having sex with her

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

yes, youre right.
and in this particular side of southeast asia, pre marriage sex is perhaps not very popular. kisses and cudles is pretty much as far as it gets. and i do notice we do hug in an intimate way, and she's needy, sometime text me and say she miss me
at first she's like "i miss you, as a friend", but not anymore