Hello guys!
As most of us know, or at least have experienced. Alcohol is said to be the elixir of truth, there´s a saying that drunk people and kids always tell the truth.
A few weeks ago partying with my girl we both got really drunk, she did more than I.. anyway, things we´re getting really hot at the party, and I told her I wanted her to suck my dick and have sex in the car, she said yes, we went to the car and did it.. but somewhere along this time things went so weird.
She started hallucinating that I was someone else, she was going to punch me and she was screaming ¨I have a boyfriend get off me¨.. so obviously I stopped fucking her, and she was like ¨Wheres my bf, give me my phone, wh are you, i want my boyfriend¨things along those lines.. until she finally came back to herself, and said ¨Where were you?¨I swore to her it was me the one who was with her, all the time, just me..
She then cried and told me that she didn´t want anyone else to touch her EVER, that she doesn´t want any other guy with her.
I was really scared when all this was happening, as I didnt know what to do....
Should we drink a little less? Or maybe not have sex while drunk? ...
She said it all reminded her of when she was kidnapped and .. well.. abused...
Has anyone ever had some experience like this happen before ?

She's experiencing PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder).. here's a description from psychcentral.com:

"Ordinary events can serve as reminders of the trauma and trigger flashbacks or intrusive images. A flashback may make the person lose touch with reality and reenact the event for a period of seconds or hours or, very rarely, days. A person having a flashback, which can come in the form of images, sounds, smells, or feelings, usually believes that the traumatic event is happening all over again."

I would read up on the disorder if I were you.

-Wolf

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i agree.

she could have been having some sort of psychological event, possibly from ptsd - which is something i suffer from as well.

or, if she was completely inebriated, she could have literally been in an alcohol-induced stuper and became disoriented and thought that you were assaulting her.

it is okay to fuck a drunk chick.

it is, however, not okay to fuck a DRUNK chick.

be careful.

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It's scary how one can learn another ones dark secrets...

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seems like she came back to her senses pretty quick!

I am in doubt that the whole thing was real. I am suspicious that she just got drunk, she wanted sex and when she sobered up a little bit she realized that it was you and she just pulled an act.
She has played with you a lot since the beginning: she had the ex chasing her, a guy from her teens, lots of guys that she was setting up dates and then flake.
She might have wanted her boyfriend I just don't know if it was you she was talking about. And I am not trying to be harsh here. I am trying to wake you up.
If it was about any other woman I would sympathize. But she sounds manipulative and with no boundaries. She can do anything, tell you a cheap excuse and convince you that you have no right to complain or feel bad. And you have fallen in the trap trying to prove that you are an Alpha. It doesnt really matter if you are alpha or beta or whatever! in this case. All it matters is to respect yourself. Anyway... that's a topic that better be answered in another post..
Honestly, I pray that what happened to her is real. If it is most possibly would be a one off and maybe in the future might happen once or twice. The alcohol cannot be a trigger.
I know that you want to marry this girl because she just hasn't given 100% of herself to you but you have to realize that you are not in love. You are obsessed because of your hurt ego. Walk away to save yourself.
Even in the case that she has all those issues... how much shit are you going put up with just to be with her? Have you ever heard of the word codependent? If not search for it on google.