Hey guys,

I'm sure this happens to a lot of you. I've had to do it a few times in the past and it never works out the way I want so what is the best way to tell a girl you don't want a relationship?

Typical story. Gamed, fucked, learned about each other and now she wants to be in a relationship. However, I don't want her as a gf but instead as a friends with benefits type deal. I really don't want to lose her as a friend, even if the sex has to stop.

Best way to effectively do this?

"I really like what we have going here and don't want to put labels on it. I have fun when I'm with you, if you're having fun too then lets keep hanging out."

To be honest, I don't think there is a way to do this without hurting her..

The only way that MIGHT work (as far as I can see), it to do the exact opposite of what your used to! Be the definition of an AFC, be beta as fuck, and eventually she might friendzone you.

If you choose to do this tho, the sex will most likeley stop. But as far as I'm concerned, it's either that, or you'll end up hurting her which might lead to more drastic scenarios.

Try and put yourself in her position, let's say that you are in love with a girl, you have sex a couple of times and you really want to enter a LTR with her. She only wants you as a friend. Is there any way she could tell you this in a matter that you'll understand without hurting your feelings?

tell her what you want, instead of what you don't want, when she tries to define the relationship, take the lead and define it yourself, she either conforms or doesn't

and if a girl wants you as a boyfriend and you don't want that, chances are you are seeing her more then 2x a week and/or hanging out with her too much and putting her in the roll of girlfriend