Hey

I usually like to share my views on this forum, great community, however now I think I need a couple of outsiders' views and opinions. Also advice pls, we have to think outside the box.

Here is the deal. I've been with this 29yo HB9 for 6 months now. Attraction is crazy, we meet 2-3 times a week, there is always lots of great sex, she wants me all the time. I can just flip out dick literally, and she s already on it.

However, I got the funny feeling that there is something not right (ok, it is official, you ll see).

Today: We were sexting thru our iphones, she inititaed after finishing work. She was telling me she wants me like crazy and cant wait to have sex with me until we can't even move no more (saturday will be the day). Okey, I was playing along with some PUA stuff (push pull, future projectrions, using all senses when describing, etc) She was also telling me to book that holiday for us finally (expensese shared of course). So it went really good, then she left for drinking wine with 2 friends, 1 gay guy and 1 girl.
She got home aroung 11pm, drunk, i guess, started writing to me, but nothing sexual. Ok, I sparked the sexual vibe and she was in, but her answers came slower and slower (i guess she was chatting with someone else too), and she tells me that she s sleepy. So I sent her a suprise to have better dreams of me, a photo of me bit time after work out, with my dick totally erect and visible. All she said was thanks, I love it, than she acted as if she had fallen asleep (not replying anymore, not answering a call either). This happened before midnight.... now at this very moment at am 3:30 I just saw her being active and sharing sharing some shit on this social network site (and she is supposed to work from 8am tomorrow, but she is really into doing something!). So basically that is a lie that she was sleepy.

She doesn't know that I have a dummy account on that social network site, she is quite active every day, but I can see her profile (I've had that account for many years btw)

Another thing: About this social network site. In her interests all that is written is her ex's name (he dumped her hard 7 months ago). She kept all the photos of him, on that site they totally seem to be a couple (3.5 yrs they spent toghether). And I took her to many places this year, we were or somebody was always taking photos. So out of all these events, she only uploaded photos of her and mutual friends. There is not a single sign of me! As if I never even existed, only that other guy.

This tells a lot. Also, she never told me that she loves me, except for that 1 time, when I dumped her for being stupid as hell and lying.

I am absolutely positive that the direct way is not the way to go around. I cannot just tell her, to take those shits off... She probly would, but that wouldnt solve the problem, only 1 sympton would be covered. So lets use this profile of her on this site as a meter for her interest level in me - without her knowing.

Her ex fuckhead guy is abroad for a month, since last week, till 25th August. I could already see that she wants to meet more. WTF? she has more free time now?

As I said there is a lot of things to fix, but I won't go direct on this social network profile. They way to go is to get her totally into me, and than everything would follow as normal (like her deleting ex pics, and uploding mine insted). How do I achieve this?

Please give me all your valuable thoughts and advice. Thank you.

Additional info: I got a new job, from 13th August, so I'm advancing in my career. This one is much better than my previous one, and I ll be making about 20% more than her (before I was earning less than her).

Also I work out regularly. I just finished the cutting phase, I'm lean as fuck, but it feels a bit small, apart from huge biceps. I'm also tall (just funny genetics). So I'm thinking that it'd be time to do some roids... I did them before, got huge resoults. But I dunno how much some extra testosterone and and extra 20 pounds of muscle would help... or if I really need them. Please only comment on this last one if you have experience in bodybuilding.

some other user posted a similar issue a month or two ago (his GF had photos of the exBF on FB, but not of him).. in that relationship everything was perfect, except for the photos thing.
I was quick to dismiss the issue as trivial/minor, and that she would over time feel comfortable enough with OP to post photos with him.
it turned out, to my great surprise, that the girl was a lying cheating bitch.
of course, this does not mean every similar situation has to lead to the same end result (guess what, I still have some photos taken with my exGF on Facebook, and am not a cheating liar). but keep your eyes very very open. if any more weird behavior starts blinking on your radar, consider using the dummy account to test this chick's loyalty

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thanks for the reply!

after all i decided to start using some roids and this new job is really working out great. she is already jealous at some of my co-worker girls.

attraction boosted.

lets see if it gets even better, we are going abroad for holidays soon, lets see if that helps and if she uploads any photos of me.